Is he cheating?

[Anonymous]

We've met twice for sex but he still refuses to give me his phone number. We only communicate through tinder and snap. He said that he doesn't want to mix his regular chats with short term hookups but I'm not sure if he's not trying to hide something or not

Updates

4 mo

Just to be clear... I meant that he has a girlfriend he's cheating on... Not that he's cheating on me

[Anonymous]

While it is not possible to say with certainty, your suspicion is reasonable. Refusing to provide a phone number while engaging in regular sexual activity is a common sign of a shady or strictly casual situation, often used to hide the person's true identity, relationship status, or to keep you separated from their real life.

Stay protected

[dragoblack]

If you are hookup buddies, there is no cheating, because it's not a commited relationship. But if he is going out of his way to keep you from being more than just a quck lay when he is in the mood, then it's time to have a talk with him. But from what i can tell your interaction contract is just to use eachother to relieve sexual impulses/stress.

[dragoblack]

On your correction of your post. Yes, the guy is absolutely cheating and you shouldn't continue meeting him knowing he is in a relationship, that's also bad on you

[firenine909]

Not really. Last thing he wants to do is text “big booty” or whoever he has you saved under and accidentally texts his mom or whatever. Are you romantically interested in him?

[Asker]

Nope

[Kabluie]

It's possible, but I do have hookup that I only communicate via discord kind of ordeal but neither of us are cheating, just non-monogamous and have other partners that know.

[Anonymous]

You. He is hiding you. You are nothing but flesh to him.