I believe that you should have a serious talk with him and for your sake, ask him to show you his phone.
When you realize that he has received calls or messages, take note of the time and write them down. Give it a few days so that you can come up with a detailed list of times when he received a call.
Next you sit together with him and ask him to show you the logs or texts and phone calls. Usually, the times are written when the calls and messages were received. If he has nothing to hide, then he will go over the logs with you. If he refuses, then your suspicions is justified.
In no case should you snoop and try to go through his calls/messages without his knowledge. Of course, he could hide the name of the woman under a guy's name. You could always ask him to tell you who those persons are exactly.
If he is reluctant, then you have the right to be suspicious.
The fact your mind is even asking means one of two things:
Your intuition is correct. He is.
OR
You are insecure and need therapy to work on your anxious attachment issues so you don't ruin what could be a good relationship with someone who is simply an extrovert or not great with reassuring you.
I think we all know which one we are facing in our own scenarios. If we are honest with ourselves.
You say you've read naughty messages. What more proof do you need?
I'm genuinely sorry this happened to you.
What you do depends on trust... your trust of him and his trust for you. If he's the same age as you, he may just be having a midlife crisis and enjoys the fantasy of talking with other women, with no intention of doing anything more than that.
When you talk with him, voice your concerns as clearly as you can and see what his response is. That will help you decide what your next action should be.
Be straight forward, tell him what you know. because if you hide the fact you know it the communication gab will just pop larger.
You got nothing to lose, either to fix the relationship or break it.
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Bottom line sweetie... is do u trust him... it doesn't sound like u do. Without trust there is just a toxic environment. IF u believe without a doubt he is cheating or sexting another. Ask to see his phone. If he freaks out or says no... then he either doent care about your feelings and is talking to another or is not. Are you prepared to do what you need to either way?
Id hand my phone to my husband immediately... but id be crushed that he didn't trust me
Going off on what you said. If you have had a conversation with him and he has said that he is not talking with a girl and no girl is messaging him then take his word for it until he SHOWS you that he can not be trusted.
Trust until proven guilty.
Maybe it just his notifications like his Gmail or FB or anything else
And just because it is a female it can seriously just be an either friendship or maybe she needs someone to talk to because she is having a hard time and he lend a helping hand
Not seriously it doesn't mean he cheating
Unless u have other factors.
Trust your gut girlfriend. He wouldn't tell you the truth anyway. He's doing just what you think he is. It is so easy for them, and they get off on the extra attention. Does he watch porn too? I wish you well Hun 🌹
Don't tell him you are scared. You have to communicate with him that he better not be or you are not afraid to walk away
Something is going on. Sometimes it’s just harmless communication. Sometimes it fills a void. If he doesn’t get up and go then that’s a
So what if he do it? Woman doesn't mind 6 feet tall have side chick enjoy the drama while you can
He for sure is... where there's smoke there's some 9169&ĺ
Just leave he’s lying already I wouldn’t event confront him about it a real man would tell you the truth
Sit him down communicate to him very clearly and sit things straight
he is not cheating he is playing
Follow your gut feeling... It's usually right.
Either share an alpha or have a beta to yourself.
break up
Likely
Confront him
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