How to stop treating my husband bad and make him realize I don’t want him anymore?

[Anonymous]

Every little detail makes me mad and I get annoyed. I can’t stand him. I insult him. I offend him. I belittle him as much as I can because I can’t stand him. I deny our relationship as much as I can.

He’s trying so hard to make me love him again. Long story short , when I wanted to treat him good he started acting very indifferent to give me a lesson but what he provoked was to just stop liking him (I never did I was just a lonely teenager) I treated his family well even gave them money without them knowing I had more money than them. I was trying hard to make my marriage work even though I was never in love. He never defended me because his weak and did lots of things that just made me realize I can’t be with him
Anymore. You must suggest divorce but we can’t right now because of a legal situation (we bought something and need 1 more year) as much as warning him I will leave him as soon as we’re done he tries so hard to sow me love and I just can’t. I want to grab him and b h up. I hate him but I still try.

[DishLady]

If you’re treating your guy poorly ON PURPOSE… Shame on you. Be honest with the guy and tell him you don’t love him. Don’t break him so he becomes dysfunctional. My God….

[laly520]

why not move out or keep distance from him
it isn't fair to harass anyone verbally

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe the fact you still try is what gives him hope.. Stop trying!. See it's one thing to say you hate him, but another to show it!

[Billlewis]

Just keep being a bitch to him, and that might solve all your problems;)

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are a terrible person, trust women to marry someone and then shit on them and want a divorce. Can i ask do you have any kids.

[Gent207-2]

Live separately

[slatyb]

Filing for divorce usually works.

[jahaims]

Immature