Guy hadn’t text back in 2 days…?

[Anonymous]

Then he just text “ sorry super busy “…. Then proceeds to text as if nothing happened

What man takes 2 days to text back

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say what goes around comes around. Have you ever texted someone back a few days later? Of course you have stop bullshitting yourself.

Texting, Texting, Texting I love this texting generation & I love when you think it’s the end of the world when someone doesn’t respond or even better leaves you on read.

Did you call him instead? Of course you didn’t stop bullshitting yourself.

On My Devil , maybe he’ll unfriend you on Instagram too. That should start WWIII!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

https://youtu.be/6OwnBuPbMqc?si=HAR7F_OBLDaQK3Zl

[Serkee]

Sometimes I'll see a text while I'm doing something, then completely forget about it for a couple days before I see it again. I think you might be looking a little to far into it, it's probably as simple as him being busy.

[Caroline91]

One who is super busy? He's texting you now which indicates he was likely at least thinking of you at times while he was super busy. Men get focused on stuff sometimes so don't take it personally. Just watch for signs early on to make sure he isn't a player. If not, don't worry about it and give him his space to take care of the things he needs to take care of. That's what men do.

[Asker]

It’s hard to do that … I truly believe that men wouldn’t do that so early on.. especially if they liked someone.. if we were in a relationship or even talked for some months.. I’ll give grace but this may scream player.. idk…

[Caroline91]

Yeah, that's why I said watch for signs of being a player. Sometimes in the beginning, a man could need to get some things cleared up to make time, too. If it' becomes a pattern, especially late night texts, I would walk the other direction fast.

[Asker]

It started out good then he started taking hours to respond but he did text throughout the day… it was my fault tho because he DID want to talk on the phone the first day and I said no

[Caroline91]

Wow, wanting to talk on the phone instead of text? I think that's a good sign. Why don't you back up on that with him and tell him you made a mistake on that call?

[Asker]

We don’t talk anymore… we met up etc.. it didn’t work out.. it was a mess… I messed things up in the beginning and he ended things badly so..

But I was just curious

[Caroline91]

Aww. Well who knows what's around the next corner?

[Asker]

Maybe self love for once

[Caroline91]

Self love goes a long way, sister! It's never wrong to take the time to get your own self together I think.

[bobalife]

I mean… “busy” is just an excuse without a care of a real explanation. If he really care & it’s true, he would elaborate. I think he’s not that interested & you can do better tbh. We are all busy but it’s about making time.

[Asker]

Right… when a man does that in the early stages and doesn’t even ELABORATE…. He’s definitely playing in your face and treating you like you don’t really matter … I wish I punished that behavior instead of text him “I understand..” ugh… never again. Trash

[bobalife]

Just don’t entertain his low efforts by ignoring that type of response and behavior. Best to move on unless you wanna give it a benefit of a doubt… but I doubt it’s sincere.

[Jkgordon]

Omg obviously he doesn’t care unless he’s a surgeon or pilot I would just block and delete. Seriously if he sees you allow him to do this he will continue to use u whenever he feels like putting up with you

[Asker]

Yes… so true.. he ended up devaluing me and discarding me.

[Jkgordon]

Are you serious? Details please I gotta hear this sipping tea

[Asker]

This is a long story tbh… I will admit that I started things off bad between us in the beginning and he finished it…boy did he finish it

We did end up meeting up … we had talked for a bit.. we also talked on the phone the day before our meet up and he said “no offense but you come off a tad bit unstable… I told him I would explain everything on the meet up but honestly I didn’t say much…and he said but he wanted to meet face to face. He was a gentleman but

I shut down bc he said he was scared to sleep with me because he didn’t want me to be crazier…

He like tried to say something about the pictures I post and asked if my father would approve

Then he asked when I was last intimate and when I asked him he just smirks and looks away

[DishLady]

Another nail-biter... maybe he just had sh*t to do. It happens... And you admit that he actually texted you that he's busy, so what else do you want from the guy? It's not like he flaked and vanished on you...

[MsProsperity]

He clearly have a partner he text and call everyday. You’ll never be too busy for people you love. I mean he doesn’t love you

[AviatorTom]

That would be a busy man, which is what he told you. Why do people believe a text deserves an immediate response? It doesn't.

[Asker]

But 2 days… in the talking stage… he has someone else

[avery58]

I don't think he's very interested. He could have told you he was busy at that time instead of letting you wonder for 2 days.

[Sugar100]

I’ve had guys do this to many all the time I thought it was normal? If people have jobs who has time to text 24/7 daily?

[avery58]

@Sugar100 it's not. Guys will try to make a little effort if they're interested in a woman. They might reply hours late but 2 days? No one does that if they really like someone

[Sugar100]

All guys I’ve met my entire 26 years hav done that and I never in my life had a guy text me all day 24/7. Even I don’t text all day. I’m working 8 hours all day plus another 2 days morning and nite to drive to work/home, get ready.

[Sugar100]

Also I thought texting all day daily was clingy?

[Sugar100]

I’ve never been married or lived with a guy. Maybe if u do those things then u text more or daily I think

[avery58]

@Sugar100 it's only clingy if you expect them to reply back right away. Not really, if you're living with someone it kind of defeats the purpose of texting often because you're already spending time with them each day at home

[OlderAndWiser]

What person tries to conduct personal relationships by text rather than actual phone calls and face to face meetings?

[spartan55]

Touche'

[spartan55]

What man? Many men. I will say this for the thousandth. Guys in general DO NOT LIKE TEXTING. You girls get all twisted up about it. Guys don't gaf.

[perpetualsadnessss]

This seems pretty normal to me. Unless you guys are married and live together or something.

[Sugar100]

Yes I’ve had guys so this to me , I’ve never had a guy text me all day daily 24/7…. I thought this was normal?

[northerngal]

In my opinion you are over thinking... if this becomes a trend then maybe.

[Finchie40]

A man that is weighing his options , you are best to move on

[ProbablyClueless]

Man just has other things going on, and contacting you simply wasn't his highest priority at that time.

[Nikki1989]

Good grief. Have you ever thought about actually talking to this guy?

[boggboss]

So what are u asking he is now texting if u ain't happy end things

[sheikalana]

If this is not your partner/husband then he can take as long as he wants to get back to you.

[TheeTrybrid]

I'm sorry hun but he's just not that into you 🤷‍♀️ I know men who make time to speak to the woman they love no matter how busy they are.

[Joshgag2000]

If you were dating him he wouldn’t take 2 days to respond. It’s an excuse

[strateguy632]

because he was busy, but made effort

[SotiCoto]

A man who is busy, obviously.

[DreamLife7]

Because he doesn't like u lol

[DreamLife7]

@Sugar100 learn to accept rejection. He doesn't like u either hun. Stop being so needy and desperate

[DreamLife7]

@Sugar100 you sound like you can't take rejection. You're still single and unmarried so what does that tell you? You're not liked 😆

[Asker]

And what are you? Are you married?

[DreamLife7]

Happily engaged and not rejected like you 🤣. You using two accounts because you're in denial. Dude ignored you because he doesn't find u attractive

[Asker]

Could you rate me and give me pointers … I would like to get work done

[DreamLife7]

He will never like you

[Asker]

I didn’t ask you that

[DreamLife7]

U asked I gave u an answer. Ur desperate, unattractive and annoying. Nothing will make any man want you

[noohair]

is there a texting rulebook?

[scott04sa22]

Ghost move on