Guys, He hasn't messaged in 2 days?

[Anonymous]

I have met this guy recently and the date went really well. We have still texted after that. A couple of times he didn't reply for hours. On Monday evening he asked how work went and I replied asking him how his day went. That was the last I heard from him and he hasn't replied to my message yet. I have noticed he hasn't read the message yet although he has been online. He hasn't been on whatsapp since Tuesday. I have also noticed that he has been on social media. This is quite rare as he usually texts me more than this. It's making me feel down and unimportant that he hasn't spoken to me, but he has time to go on other things. He hasn't read my message yet although I'm sure he's received it and maybe he's choosing not to reply or just busy. I just don't know and every time I check my phone it's driving me mad. It's been 2 days, should I message him asking how he is or should I continue to wait and see if he messages?

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+1 y

I sent him something on instagram and he's opened it but hasn't replied. I don't understand... I'm really upset. I know I haven't done anything wrong?

[Anonymous]

Guys can wait 3 days. Girls and guys measure the passage of time VERY VERY differently. You have to learn this.

Also, the more desperate you are, the less likely a guy is going to find that attractive.

[sdx01]

watch stranger things on Netflix , it will be an entertaining distraction. When he eventually replies ask him for an explanation. If he never replies there's always tinder.

[John_Doesnt]

You sound clingy. 2 days isn't very long.

[Anonymous]

You seem desperate as f

[ujval]

jst ignoring you..

[Asker]

why?

[ujval]

did you did anything weird last time?

[Asker]

I didn't, just talking normally

[ujval]

then he lost interest

[Asker]

I don't think so and don't see why he would all of a sudden...

[ujval]

you may

[ujval]

I said you.. he is not interested