He hasn't texted in two weeks?

[Anonymous]

We had an argument after 1st date. I said its over, i blocked him , and he unmatched me on the app , later i unblocked him he kept watching my story on app but then quit. Now its been quiet for two weeks.

[ohsheeT]

And this is where people blew it whether you're male or female you're upset in a moment that you're not getting your way somebody saying something that you do not like so the first thing you do is you stump your feet and you say fine and you snap you put a block on everything like a 5 year old you don't like me I don't like you and then a day goes by our two days go by and you start to realize when the Blood starts getting back into your head you say why did I do that why did I snap like that

And then the guy thinks what the hell did I do why is she acting this way I don't want to be around anybody that acts this way that's ridiculous and then he says fine if that's the way she wants it fine she's got it and there you go it's a done deal

This whole experience was meant to teach you something it was meant for you to take a good look at yourself and ask yourself certain questions and then look at everything you did and ask yourself is that who I really want to be am I that shallow am I that immature

I've had things like this happen to me and basically all it was was a miscommunication but then after that miscommunication you realize what was said or how it was taken and you try to get a hold of that person and he said WTF why are you acting that way and then basically it's done and over anyway because nobody wants to be around the person that does that and then they make post stuff on wish there's asking why hasn't he texted me in two weeks you blocked him you told him that you did not want any more communication he's honoring your wishes

[Asker]

I got angry cause he ignored and readnmy text hut didn't care to respond. I saw that as disinterested

[Asker]

He didn't care. To respond. That hurts. Its normal. Ur acting like i did it and i m the childish one. While he chose to ignore.

[Alex8736]

Your best bet is to keep them out of sight out of mind and keep moving forward

[Anonymous]

Yeah, let that go he’s gone. You two were strangers basically, there was no opportunity to form any ties to keep him around after that drama, l and honestly you probably crossed a boundary of his. Personally I know that after only one date I am not invested in that guy, so if he does some bullshit like block me and say it’s over why tf would I dive back into that again? If he’s come to the conclusion that you’re argumentative and childish then I’m sure it’s a deal breaker. Learn how to handle your emotions better, or when you feel pushed that far with a guy, make sure you are actually done, there’s no going back.

[Asker]

But why watch my storied

[Asker]

Stories*

[Opinion Owner]

Why not? Does it have to mean he’s interested in you to watch your stories? Even if he did for a minute, he stopped doing that, not like he still does. Anyway let it go, he won’t be the only guy you match with online.

[Asker]

He stopped watching after he saw me with another guy

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever the reason, he’s not doing it anymore. Move on.

[Cynicaldreamer]

You already answered your own question. You're the one that stated things were over, and guess what-

He listened. And apparently agreed. If you want him back, now YOU have to reach out, initiate conversation, apologize, and hope he wants to try again.
Just because he's watching your stories doesn't mean he wants you back: he could just be seeing have you moved on, or checking on you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know but I there was a case where the husband had been emotionally and sexually abusive for years and one day when he forced his penis into the wives mouth she bit it off, ran off with her car and threw the ”thing” in a ditch from her car window.

[MJackson1234]

You are toxic. You blocked him but you want him to chase you. Get therapy.

[Asker]

I unblocked him

[MJackson1234]

The problem is not the unblocking but the blocking. I genuinely think you need some alone time and some therapy to get to a healthy place and learn proper communication skills.

[Asker]

I blocked him... because he read and ignored my messaged

[Asker]

For hours, didbt care to reply

[In_Trance]

You said it's over