Guy I’ve been talking to hasn’t texted me in two days, he’s on vacation but has texted me until this point? should I reach out or wait?

[Anonymous]

Hi so the guy I’ve been seeing has been on vacation for a week, I think he comes back tonight, however he has been texting me throughout the week he’s been gone, but he hasn’t texted me back in two days. He questioned if I would ghost him because we haven’t seen each other in two weeks and I promised I would never ghost and he also said he doesn’t ghost. Should I reach out to him and ask if he’s alright or should I wait for him to reach out? Pretty sure he left me on read

[Guy13]

Check his social media, like 2 minutes, Tuesday morning if no contact. Do NOT contact him while in vacation period.

[Asker]

He’s not really on social media lol but he has contacted me and reached out to me during his vacation so I’d figure to reach out to him but haven’t put in effort to start any convo when he hasn’t texted back

[Guy13]

It is important that he responded so he can Check that off List. And, you can thank him for it given it is his alone "hiking time". You need to Check that off too.

[Asker]

Kind of confused on what you are implying lol

[Guy13]

he texted on vacation, Done. You thanked him for that because on vacation IN PERSON, Done.

[Asker]

I mean I didn’t thank him for that , he didn’t need to at all , but I’m happy he did , it’s just weird that he now hasn’t texted in two days even though he has texted throughout you know. I don’t care about having boundaries and not texting but it’s the fact that he has and then stopped all the sudden especially I know for a fact that he is on his way back tonight so it’s just kind of odd

[Guy13]

You don’t thank until in person. He’s fine now. No more texting, Done,

[kinggeorge007]

Just send an "Are you alright?" text to see if he's still alive or something. Who knows what happened to him.

[tzdc21]

Have you tried contacting him? Or has he been the only one that has been initiating conversations via text between you two? If it's the latter, then you should initiate some more, because if you don't he's probably gonna be convinced that you're not all that invested into him and he's gonna move on. I know I would if I wasn't convinced that the girl I was seeing was reciprocating the same amount into me as I am to her.

[Anonymous]

I say move on. If a guy is really into you he can't stand to not see you or talk to you. He went on vacation without you also.

[sheikalana]

Sure. Shoot him a text. He’s probably busy enjoying his vacation.

[Anonymous]

Do you know how to actually talk?

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Many young women on here don't know how to talk. Everything revolves around texting and they think having a relationship is based on texting only or social media. Gone are the days of actually phoning somebody for clarification or getting info.

[In_Trance]

How long have you been seeing him?