As the guy with kids I'm going to tell you that they love to fuck me. But they leave my friends with benefits's situation quick when they think they've found a guy they can lock into a relationship... then they call randomly in about 3 weeks because they need my dick in them again.
I think for women it has a little bit to do with sexy time + attainment of resources. They see me with kids already and they already know they can't get me to pay their fucking rent like some fuckng simp would. Yeah, they'll buy me dinner and give me the soft guy era treatment I deserve (drizzle drizzle), but that because of the sex, and the guy she's cheating on gave her a card to his bank account.
She's with him long term, I'm just for fun.
Maybe different if she's a 'brokey' and she finds out I'm ultra-wealthy and can easily still pay her rent and still take care of my kids... but I'm not living that experience, so I can't really speak on that as a matter of fact.
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My wife chose that path and she's very happy. Ahe loves her work and i take care of the stuff ahe doesn't enjoy and contribute to bring health to the family.
In today's economy, this would make me extremely nervous! I have no issues with a man taking on the caregiver role, but it's the harsh realities of the cost of living that terrify me. If the question of what happens if I can't work, had a feasible financial back up plan tied to it, I would happily say yes.
I realize this is probably a bait Q but ignoring that. Sure. It's attractive to have a man want to spend time with his children. It's not an easy job for either parent. A lot of people flee from it these days.. but then in this economy most are forced to.
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A man who wants to take care of his children and is fine with me bringing the money home for that while? Sign me up! Not that I would ever want children, but it would be a win / win situation for me since my work demands a lot of time and effort. I could never do it with a child if both of us went to work and especially not if I would stay at home with the kid.
No way. Usually men don’t actually want to be stay at home dads, they just want to be stay at home roommates with you while contributing nothing to maintaining the household.
I’ve seen so many times, women wasting their time with stay at home boyfriends that sit on the couch all day. Not for me, I’m good 🫶 my man better be a providerAlthough I'd rather be a stay at home mom, if I was making the kind of income for him to be a stay at home dad, I wouldn't mind especially if I could work from home.
If we could afford it, I don't see why not. I'm assuming he's doing all the housework and not just gaming all day until I get off work, right?
Nah I prefer to be a stay at home mom because it makes breastfeeding easier
I would consider it as long as he was also capable and willing to be a sole provider if necessary. One of us definitely will have to stay home with the kids, and while I would prefer it to be me I would also be okay with it being him.
If that’s his goal before we’re married… like when we first meet? No.
If we’re married and one of us has a tough year so the SAH status has to be shared or flipped, then ok.Yes, if he is a trust fund baby where he owned the house and inherits some large amount of money. I can work just to add the income and he can look after the kids.
Nothing wrong with this if it's what you've agreed upon and the woman's salary/job is enough to support the family.
I'm gonna be a teacher. Logically I do not see the point in the man taking time away from work when my job is already spending time with children
To be honest no, that's unattractive. I would see him as a loser... I prefer to stay home (if somebody had to stay home)
Not really. Although a man who can do things around the house is great I'd still prefer him to be the bread winner and I the house wife.
No, because that implies there's kids. But if he just wants to stay at home, cook and clean and whatever all day, fine by me.
No as I don't want offspring and that's why no ladies coming over here to me 😂😆 otherwise I may go scowl lol narrow eyed "please, please dont flirt at me" face 👀😈
Nah, I couldn't do that. Not the kind of man I'm into. No shade on anyone who is, I think it's great if it works for you. But it's not for me.
I probably wouldn’t if that meant I had to go to work so he could be home with them. I also don’t have kids so I can’t say from experience.
They never will because they have to stay out of the comfort zone & work hard to earn money😂
Yes I would date a stay at home dad I have a disabled daughter to care for so I have no choice but to be a stay at home mom I got 5 kids
We gotta take turns cause i wanna stay home too.
I don't think so
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