I've been dating this woman for a month and we have great chemistry and feels like we've known each other for a long time. We are very Into each other and have already slept together. We text every day and on her last day, before going on vaca, she texted me "ttyl" Which bothered me a bit but didn't put too much thought into it. She went on vacation on 8/9 for two weeks with family on a camping trip (no reception). I'm strongly independent, grounded, and have a good head on my shoulders. Made it clear to her I'm looking for a relationship and not to waste my time at the beginning. I have not texted her in a week so she can have her space and enjoy herself. I have spent time working and hanging with friends. I realize she is someone I can see myself with and decided to delete my online dating account (where we met). Before I did I've notice she been online and has me thinking. I've texted her "Hope your having a blast love. See you soon 😘" and has not texted back. Obviously if she is getting reception she would use it to send/reply a text to me instead of checking the online dating web.
What should I do? She returns this Friday. 1) should I confront her (in a mature manner) 2) be worried 3) text her again 4) wait until she text me back? 5) wait until she comes back?
I like her a lot maybe in love, but again don't want to waste time. There ARE other women whom I met before her who want to take a chance with me.
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My initial thought was that may be she had no reception, or was too preoccupied with her family, but when i read the part where she logged into the dating site online instead of messaging you, alarm bells started ringing. It would be very naive to ignore that fact , considering how long you have been together.
If i cared for a guy and wanted to be with him, i'd miss him while i was away, and he would be on my mind constantly. I'd contact him with every given opportunity. You were not the first thing on her mind... the dating site was. That is evidence of where her mind was and is when she is away.
Never let any girl be your priority , if you are only their option. Peronally , i would reserve my heart for someone who makes an effort to be there.
I wouldn't confront her at this stage, wait to see how things develop. Just hold back your feelings and keep your heart guarded until you know for sure you can yrust her with it 💜😊0
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