Girl hasn't texted me in 3 weeks?

[badg96]

in the last messages we exchanged she said i've been busy i said when she was free to message me. but she hasn't told me anything so far. Do you think i text her?

[HollyK21]

After 3 weeks, I’d say she’s not into you. Even if she was at one point, she isn’t anymore, unfortunately. So it’s better not to reach back out, accept that it didn’t work out and let her go.

[litty]

The genie is out of the bottle. She knows you are in love with with her, so now she doesn't want to complicate the friends with benefits situation.

You'd have to prove you aren't in love which is hard to do. Several options would be to randomly bump into her while also being with another girl. Another would be to casually ask her to join a three-way you got set up (as in she's the third person).

[WhitneySnow]

She’s probably not into you

[badg96]

we were friends with benefits but i told her i was in love with her when drunk and she said she just wanted sex i think i blew it so i better not message her any more?

[WhitneySnow]

I think you’re right

[WhitneySnow]

She’s not interested in a relationship rn

[badg96]

But i want have sex with her again. Do you think is possible?

[WhitneySnow]

Try telling her you don’t wanna put any pressure on her and you just wanna get with her so you guys can both have fun like she wanted. Or something like that.

[badg96]

I've been texting her a lot today, but when I told her that in the time we hadn't seen each other I realized that I felt nothing more than a physical attraction and friendship for her and that we could continue to have fun without pressure, she didn't respond.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think she wants that either anymore. I think she just wants to be friends friends.

[badg96]

I don't think I should have ever told her that I was in love with her we ruined our friends with benefits relationship

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah probably. That’s what it sounds like.

[badg96]

she just replied like this: it's good to know that 🙃. what this meaning i not know this emoji

[WhitneySnow]

Like a quizzical half smile. It basically means what she said. “It’s good to know.” Basically if she feels like it she’ll hook up with you again. At least that’s what it would mean if I used that emoji (except I don’t do the hookup thing so I wouldn’t say that but you get what I’m saying).

[badg96]

nice, i think in a few days i'll ask if she wants to hookup with me

[WhitneySnow]

Good idea

[Gent207]

She ghosted you bro, sorry