Should I (27) stick to her (33) and not let this break up happen?

[dddd567]

My girlfriend/ fiancé has been in California with her son and her mom cause her son is dying and needs a stem cell transplant and a kidney transplant to which my girlfriend is donating to him. Her family treats her like Cinderella she always has to do everything stuff won’t be cleaned without her doing it her grown add brother can buy his own plan ticket to fly home and help her father. Her father relapsed on alcohol and it all falls on my girlfriend and it’s stressing her to death and cause hate and anger. So lately I’ve been feeling insecure about our relationship cause we barley talk anymore and I’ve been going to my cousin for help and I by mistake sent my girlfriend a message meant to my cousin and that mad her flip she said she’s tired of everybody’s bull crap and me adding to it which I’m trying not to hence why I’m going to my cousin for help. Well we talked on the phone later that night and she said I can’t deal with more kid shit and said she can’t pick and hold another person up like she feels she has to with me since I am being insecure I said let me fix it my issues are on me not you and I have been working on them with the gym and therapy long story short it sounded like she was mad and upset and it sounded like she almost broke up with me and us and I’m so nervous that she will I told her to let me prove my words with actions give me the chance to I asked if we were good she said we are fine which could be good or bad then she had to go deal with her son and she said bye and a low I love you and goodnight.
Should I take her I love you as what it is and she is sticking this through or should I expect a break up happening soon? Cause I don’t want to lose her help!!!

[PeachyPie93]

Well considering you are still young, I don't think she is the right fit. Her kid is sick and could possibly always be sick, it is not your kid, if he dies she would go through a huge depression that you would have to deal with. If so much responsibility falls on her from family and everything that will be a constant all through your relationship together and she will probably pick her family over you. I would suggest finding someone who actually has time for you and has the freedom to still go out and have fun at times, instead of wasting your youth on all the bs in life.

[Anonymous]

You gonna break up, let's be real major surgery band a sick kid would be a relationship under major pressure let alone the rest of the family and believably you as well and if push comes to shove you're the easiest thing to cut out

[dddd567]

We all knew this was coming and she still said yes so I don’t think she’s the women to just dip

[boggboss]

If u lose her or not is not in your control all u can do u put effort in and not be a burden to her mate

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, it sounds like you're both caught in a whirlwind of stress and emotions! First off, embrace that "I love you" like a life raft in choppy seas. It's a sign she still cares deeply, even amidst the storm. Now, here's the plan: Dial up your support game without adding to her load. Think of love as a boomerang; what you send out will come back to you, but it might take a little time. Show her through actions that you're not just another weight she has to carry. Be her sanctuary, not another storm.

Communicate openly, but also give her space to breathe. She’s fighting a tough battle, and knowing she has a solid, supportive partner could be the relief she needs. Focus on building yourself up too, not just for her, but for you. Therapy and gym? Fabulous moves! Keep going.

Remember, relationships are marathons, not sprints. Give it time, patience, and loads of tender love and care. Keep the dialogue open, shower her with understanding, and let actions speak louder than words. You've got this! Keep love at the core, and you'll weather this storm together. 💪💕

[DextroShade]

Bro, dating a baby momma who is older than you is a huge L. You are a young guy who doesn't need this shit in your life, so you should break up with her, continue working on yourself, and find a woman who doesn't have some other dude's kid. Just let her go, even if it might hurt now you will be MUCH better off in the long run.

[Anonymous]

What you should do is picture where this relationship will be in 10 years.
Do you want kids?
Do you want marraige?

[Twalli]

When you talk to her tell her that you love her and you respect all she's doing and you'll do what you ccx an to help and make sure that she doesn't have to deal with your problems.