I been talking to this girl for a long time and I really like her and everything. She always continues the convo, talks about how we are gonna hang out, and even starts the convo. One she started acting all weird so I knew I had to make a move. I texted her on snap saying “hey I might be at millersville this Saturday to meet up with my friend if you want to meet up”? She replied saying “oh really!!” Then I was “yea lol, but I might be going on a later time tho on Saturday”. Left me delivered for 4 hours than sends a cute snap. Does this mean I lost her? She has been doing this too when we got to Thanksgiving break
You are not playing to win. Need to lay down expectations and see what she says. Nobody got time for all this nonsense.
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If you genuinely like her, then you need to ask her out directly with firm plans. Sounds like she was interested but your half-baked requests to 'hang out' are putting her off. If you don't act fast, you will lose her.
She wants a direct ask out. That isn’t asking her out. It’s hanging out with friends. If you want her, be direct.
There's a lot of wishy washy here. "I might" Mena's just that. Maybe. Give her something concrete that she can say yes or no to. I wouldn't end it until you have something firm that she then backs away from.
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There'd nothing to end here because nothing ever started.
Just be direct with her. She also needs to be direct with you. She isn't really being clear with her intentions here.
You can't forge a relationship via texting. You are wasting your time.
Sounds like she's not that interested in you
Yeah, she's not truly interested.
Yes you should
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