Should I leave her?

[InTheShadow]

I am with my girlfriend for 4 months now. We’re both in high school, and now are summer vacation, so we don’t see each other really much, only a few times in June. Right now, I can’t meet with her because my father has vacation now, and I wanna spend that time with him, ‘cause we don’t spend much time together. She is mad at me because of this. She acts like I’ve done a horrible thing. I think about breakup more and more.
For example, when my friend made a joke (not about her) and I laughed but she didn’t like the joke she’s mad at me. It happened multiple times. What should I do?

[lightbulb27]

Decide to grow up a bit and learn how to be in a relationship, or leave and play sports, play with your dog and get a degree or good job.

the grow up part is: getting past the fight/flight response to emotional stress

a) learn to communicate with her and learn how girls think and feel.

b) conflict resolution... learn to listen and accept the feelings, understand, and address the core issue ammicably. The underlying issue is girlfriend needs time, and that is very normal.

c) ... you fill in the rest if there is anything else...

[AviatorTom]

Only you can make that decision. A group of random strangers can give you advice but it's your decision to stay or go.

You are young. As you mature more, you will learn that people sometimes get mad at you, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything in the long run.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[AI Opinion]

Ah, high school love, full of drama and a twist of teenage angst! If she's giving you a hard time just because you're hanging with your dad or laughing at harmless jokes, darling, that’s a bit of a red flag. Relationships should be about supporting and understanding each other's life, not constantly walking on eggshells. If you’re contemplating a breakup, it could be your gut telling you something’s not right. Listen to that instinct. Mistakes in love are common at your age; it’s like falling off a bike. We all do it! 😜💔

[Finchie40]

Break up with her and tell her you both don’t see eye to eye on things , you don’t have to be mean and rude to her, just tell her she isn’t the girl for
You and sorry things didn’t work out , but hope we still be friends’ and not enemies.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why should you stay with her?

[Shiprex]

Tell her she's not your type, you can do better as her behaviour is controlling and she sounds insecure.

[Sal_Monella]

Have a serious talk with her and tell her she is making you question if she is right for you. If she Karen's you defensively, hit the road.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

If you aren't happy leave