Should I leave her?

[Anonymous]

This is already her second chance. She walked away the first time and begged for another chance. It's been a few weeks steady then I took her to the mall and bought her some clothes and gave her a couple of my least favorite bottles of wine from my house. Now, she is not responding to my messages but reading them. I feel like she's unreliable and not a person I can share my day with. Am I crazy?

[Pοrnytail]

Based on the limited details, here are my thoughts on whether you should leave this person:

1. She has already walked away from the relationship once, suggesting a lack of commitment on her part. People who truly want to be with someone don't usually leave and come back.

2. After only a few weeks of things going steady, she has now become unresponsive and is ignoring your messages. This shows a lack of care, respect and communication.

3. The fact that you feel you cannot share your day with her or rely on her indicates a disconnect within the relationship. An essential part of any partnership is being able to confide in and depend on each other.

4. You bought her gifts and gave her gestures of affection, yet she has not reciprocated that care and attention towards you. A relationship should be balanced, with both people putting effort in.

5. You express that you don't feel she is a "person I can share my day with." At its core, a relationship should provide each partner with companionship, emotional support and someone to share life with. If that isn't there, the foundation is shaky.

In summary, based on what you've described, it seems this relationship may have run its course. Her lack of commitment, care and communication suggests she is not ready or able to be the partner you need.

You are not crazy for wanting a reliable person to share your life with. That is fair and reasonable. So if this woman cannot meet your basic relationship needs, for your own happiness and wellbeing, it may be best to leave and seek a more fulfilling bond with someone else in future.

Hope this perspective provides some clarity. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

Based on the limited details, here are my thoughts on whether you should leave this person:

1. She has already walked away from the relationship once, suggesting a lack of commitment on her part. People who truly want to be with someone don't usually leave and come back.

2. After only a few weeks of things going steady, she has now become unresponsive and is ignoring your messages. This shows a lack of care, respect and communication.

3. The fact that you feel you cannot share your day with her or rely on her indicates a disconnect within the relationship. An essential part of any partnership is being able to confide in and depend on each other.

4. You bought her gifts and gave her gestures of affection, yet she has not reciprocated that care and attention towards you. A relationship should be balanced, with both people putting effort in.

5. You express that you don't feel she is a "person I can share my day with." At its core, a relationship should provide each partner with companionship, emotional support and someone to share life with. If that isn't there, the foundation is shaky.

In summary, based on what you've described, it seems this relationship may have run its course. Her lack of commitment, care and communication suggests she is not ready or able to be the partner you need.

You are not crazy for wanting a reliable person to share your life with. That is fair and reasonable. So if this woman cannot meet your basic relationship needs, for your own happiness and wellbeing, it may be best to leave and seek a more fulfilling bond with someone else in future.

Hope this perspective provides some clarity. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

Based on the limited details, here are my thoughts on whether you should leave this person:

1. She has already walked away from the relationship once, suggesting a lack of commitment on her part. People who truly want to be with someone don't usually leave and come back.

2. After only a few weeks of things going steady, she has now become unresponsive and is ignoring your messages. This shows a lack of care, respect and communication.

3. The fact that you feel you cannot share your day with her or rely on her indicates a disconnect within the relationship. An essential part of any partnership is being able to confide in and depend on each other.

4. You bought her gifts and gave her gestures of affection, yet she has not reciprocated that care and attention towards you. A relationship should be balanced, with both people putting effort in.

5. You express that you don't feel she is a "person I can share my day with." At its core, a relationship should provide each partner with companionship, emotional support and someone to share life with. If that isn't there, the foundation is shaky.

In summary, based on what you've described, it seems this relationship may have run its course. Her lack of commitment, care and communication suggests she is not ready or able to be the partner you need.

You are not crazy for wanting a reliable person to share your life with. That is fair and reasonable. So if this woman cannot meet your basic relationship needs, for your own happiness and wellbeing, it may be best to leave and seek a more fulfilling bond with someone else in future.

Hope this perspective provides some clarity. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

[Oliverlogan263]

Based on the limited details, here are my thoughts on whether you should leave this person:

1. She has already walked away from the relationship once, suggesting a lack of commitment on her part. People who truly want to be with someone don't usually leave and come back.

2. After only a few weeks of things going steady, she has now become unresponsive and is ignoring your messages. This shows a lack of care, respect and communication.

3. The fact that you feel you cannot share your day with her or rely on her indicates a disconnect within the relationship. An essential part of any partnership is being able to confide in and depend on each other.

4. You bought her gifts and gave her gestures of affection, yet she has not reciprocated that care and attention towards you. A relationship should be balanced, with both people putting effort in.

5. You express that you don't feel she is a "person I can share my day with." At its core, a relationship should provide each partner with companionship, emotional support and someone to share life with. If that isn't there, the foundation is shaky.

In summary, based on what you've described, it seems this relationship may have run its course. Her lack of commitment, care and communication suggests she is not ready or able to be the partner you need.

You are not crazy for wanting a reliable person to share your life with. That is fair and reasonable. So if this woman cannot meet your basic relationship needs, for your own happiness and wellbeing, it may be best to leave and seek a more fulfilling bond with someone else in future.

Hope this perspective provides some clarity. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome

[magiusX26]

mite as well dump her as mentally she has already left you.

[InTheShadow]

Yeah, you should totally leave her, she doesn’t show you any affection, she’s more like a burden to you, and you know it. You just see the confirmation.

[astrophelle]

Yeap