Should I breakup with her?

[Anonymous]

Currently in a long distance relationship. Last week, during a phonecall she said "You don't have a life, maybe you need one so you don't need me that much"

[Espresso-Grande]

It's hard to say without more context.

She could be hinting that you've settled for her because you don't have much going on in your life. She may be worried that'll you'll not want her in your life anymore if your life changes.

[whereismyjohnny]

Need more context. Is this the first time she said something like that? I would talk to her about it and tell her it upset me if I were you tbh

[lillucy]

Maybe you’re calling her too often and she doesn’t have time to get anything done or feels like she needs me time. Don’t breakup with her just call her less and see if she says anything about it

[Daniela1982]

Have you asked this question before? It sounds really familiar.

[Asker]

No. Just find this app. Any thouhgs?

[JoyGirl]

Wow…that is kind of loaded.
I suggest communicating how you feel about what she said, in video call. Focus on her reaction.

[EdwinLivingston_]

What's the context

[Asker]

Afther that we got into a foo fight, I asked for a time apart. Not sure what to do next time we talk. Is this about what she thinks of me or it's just a coment?

[EdwinLivingston_]

Probably just an angry comment. Girls sometimes speak stupid and mean nothing

[Iron_Man]

Yes she’s a bore