Should I breakup with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I did really like her and we have a great connection and she’s stunning.

But she went to the club without me, knowing I don’t like that.
I know guys that go to the club to get laid and don’t care one bit a girl has a boyfriend. But she wanted to go despite me not liking this.
So it will always be a splinter in my mind. I’m not saying she cheated, but who knows? Respect/trust is earned.

How do you find a wife these days? Are there women out there that actually get it?

Breakup

Don’t break up

Updates

+1 y

Maybe she did it to prove a point. Liberals.

[_Maya_]

Yeah you should break up. At least you should for her sake. Anyone that controlling doesn’t deserve a relationship in my opinion. Is she not allowed to have a life outside of you? Does she need your express consent with everything she does? If so then break up with her. That will probably be a relief for her. You say trust and respect is earned. How is she to earn it if you clearly don’t trust her? She can’t even go out for a good time at a club without you jumping to conclusions. I do want to ask if you have trouble coming up with new account usernames or do you just mash the keyboard like wildfire I and call it a day?

[Jessica405]

Why did the two of them not share the good time? What was there that needed her to go on her own?

[_Maya_]

@Jessica405 I give the probability of this post being true at less than 5%. I am very aware who this is.

[Jessica405]

It might be someone's imagination, but the scenario could be very reai for someone else. That's just my opinioj.

[_Maya_]

I know this guy. Same one that thinks women should be completely submissive, have no career, stay at home, etc etc. Probably accounts into the 30s this week. Update says it all.

[Asker]

The reason relationships no longer work is because of this new empowering woman culture. Your grandmothers were all successful, now look at women today. Mostly disappointing. Not all, but a majority.

[Jessica405]

True! LOL!

[Asker]

@Jessica405 the fact you can see sense shows me you deserve what your grandmother had 👍

[Jessica405]

If she knows you don't like it, and still does it, then she clearly has no respect for your feelings. She might always be like this. Not a good basis for a relationship.

Your life with her could be very miserable. Always wondering...

[Crankor]

Yah that's going to be a reoccurring thing. If you don't like it then that's plenty a reason to break it off

[TrueConfection]

I voted Breakup. Set her free so she can find someone who trusts her.

[confusedgirlyxo]

like you said, trust is earned, let her prove she can go out and have a good time and not hook up with anyone. if she does cheat on you, you dump her and move on but you can’t control what she does. you’ve gotta let her be and she’ll prove whatever she needs to prove by her actions.

if it makes you feel any better when i go to the club with my girls and my man can’t come i don’t even look at other guys, trust your girl does the same.

actions speak louder than words.

but don’t be so controlling she’s her own person she can make her own decisions and if you disagree with them you can always leave.

[fafylone]

She doesn't deserve you. Going to place where temptation to cheat is high says more about her. I heard people have sex in club in front of other people. What a crazy world I am dizzy from this information. So immoral shit indeed.

[IslaTheWitch]

If you don't trust her that would be better. She can recover and find a partner who would love her and trust her.

[Billlewis]

I wouldn't break up with a woman who did that.