So for full details on my situation, you can look at my very first question. To save you guys time though, I'll summarize and just say that my ex and I were going out for over a year from freshman to sophomore year in high school and she dumped me about 10 months ago. The breakup was almost completely my fault, and I have made sincere apologies to her many times.
Anyways, about 6 and a half weeks ago we had a talk and I figured out that she still wasn't over the fact that I mistreated her and that she was reminded of that every time she looked at me. I asked her why she still wasn't over those negative feelings and she asked me why I wasn't over my positive feelings for her. Touche.
She also told me to be honest with her so I took a risk and asked if she had any leftover feelings for me, or if she was done with me for good. She responded, "I would like to say I'm done, but I'll settle with not for long"
We agreed to not talk for a while so we didn't talk until Tuesday. I chatted her and asked her if I could walk over a Christmas card that I wrote for her. She said I could. When I got there, she invited me inside and we talked for about half an hour. We didn't talk about anything big, just what each other has been up to recently.
I noticed during the talk that she avoided eye contact a lot, which was weird Because she was the one who invited me inside, Half an hour later she said that she was going up to her room so I told her that I would be leaving, She said that I was welcome to stay as long as I wanted but I excused myself anyway Because I had a friend coming over.
As I was leaving, I kinda gave her an semi-awkward pat on the shoulder/side hug, which she returned.
She told me that she wasn't going anywhere this break so I'm wondering if I should ask her to hang out again as friends. The reason I'm not sure is because just 6 weeks ago she was ranting at me and telling me how she couldn't get over what I did. I find it hard to believe that she is completely over that now, but she did seem receptive to us having one on one time.
Any advice?
Thanks a lot!
Anyways, about 6 and a half weeks ago we had a talk and I figured out that she still wasn't over the fact that I mistreated her and that she was reminded of that every time she looked at me. I asked her why she still wasn't over those negative feelings and she asked me why I wasn't over my positive feelings for her. Touche.
She also told me to be honest with her so I took a risk and asked if she had any leftover feelings for me, or if she was done with me for good. She responded, "I would like to say I'm done, but I'll settle with not for long"
We agreed to not talk for a while so we didn't talk until Tuesday. I chatted her and asked her if I could walk over a Christmas card that I wrote for her. She said I could. When I got there, she invited me inside and we talked for about half an hour. We didn't talk about anything big, just what each other has been up to recently.
I noticed during the talk that she avoided eye contact a lot, which was weird Because she was the one who invited me inside, Half an hour later she said that she was going up to her room so I told her that I would be leaving, She said that I was welcome to stay as long as I wanted but I excused myself anyway Because I had a friend coming over.
As I was leaving, I kinda gave her an semi-awkward pat on the shoulder/side hug, which she returned.
She told me that she wasn't going anywhere this break so I'm wondering if I should ask her to hang out again as friends. The reason I'm not sure is because just 6 weeks ago she was ranting at me and telling me how she couldn't get over what I did. I find it hard to believe that she is completely over that now, but she did seem receptive to us having one on one time.
Any advice?
Thanks a lot!
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