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So it's known that some women like to switch over and find a different type a guy attractive later down in life. For example in college/high school she may have been attracted to the hot, popular guy who likes to party and have fun but coming down to her late 20's and beyond want a stable, less fun guy, who has a job, and willing to commit and possibly have children in future.
Now some men who may have a chip on their shoulder for women not wanting to be with them when they were younger, prettier and more fun but are coming to them now that they have a nice career, house, and place have decided to use the beta provider game.

The beta provider game is where men either actively or passively use women's hopes and dreams of finding a reliable guy to settle down to their advantage. These women can range from girls wanting to settle down and marry now but the guy she truly wants to be with isn't ready yet so she goes for you instead to single mothers looking for a meal ticket.

The beta provider game works by going out on dates with these women and giving the illusion that you will be a good provider. Dropping hints in casual conversation that indicate that you are willing to commit, you have nice paying job, and you like kids or willing to have kids. Stuff likes this in subtle doses. The beta provider game also tends to use the nice guy persona more so that the cocky asshole that younger women gravitate towards.

The beta game is a lot slower and usually takes several dates before he can bed these women. However, once he beds these women he quickly loses their number and move onto the next.
So in summary the beta provider game is like danging a carrot of being a good provider over women's faces and using it to get sex from them. Once you get what you want you discard them and move onto the next.

So i just finish reading a piece by a person named, George Smith, who just came out of a divroce only to realize that a lot of women these days don't want sex, relationship from majority of males but their attention.


"After a divorce, George Smith, 47, is dating again and finding that women don't want sex or a relationship, just attention. "

And it seems that this seems to be a common thing. Just recently a question featured on front page had a guy talk about how he was played, and used for attention by a girl on FB.

"In talking to a girl om fb I like that I met on holiday and she's sending me mixed signals. One day she'll be really blunt about everything and not talk a lot then the next she'll be extremely flirty with me and will consistently initiate conversation.

I've come to the conclusion that she just likes talking to me when she's bored or when she wants to be complimented etc. I'm really fed up about it because I feel like I'm wasting my time and have decided I'm just not gonna message her anymore."

In addition to this I've come across a girl stating many women are getting screwed romantically with the men THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH and have opted to using the men they don't want sexually to give them the attention, affection they would have gotten in the relationship while using another guy completely for sex who i'm guessing is tall, handsome and couple tiers more attractive than them. If they can get both then is your boyfriend.

And then i ran across this woman's quote

"Attention until they are ready and want love. Attention is the same thing for woman as sex is for guys. If someone is throwing it at you, you aren't going to knock it off or shut it down. You will revel in it. Being wanted is better then being had. When girls are ready then they want love and to settle down just like guys. No not every girl needs or wants attention like that just like not every guy needs or wants sex like that but in my opinion it's different ends of the same thing."

You are at a disco or somewhere else and this attractive starts flirting with you very directly like finding cheap excuses to sleep at your place. But you know somehow that the person is in a relationship (you know this person, a friend told you or the person mentioned how bad the relationship is working currently). Would this be a problem for you or would you take your chance anyway?
In the comments you can also differentiate for example between flirting, making out, ONS or relationship. In the poll I assume making out or ONS (except if you are against premaritarial sex).