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As many of you know, for the past year, I've been drinking like a fish, a whole bottle of rum every day for much of the year and sometimes more. I did this because I felt depressed and stuck, unable to move, and wanted an escape. Many of you tried to help me, to which I didn't listen. However, I hit rock bottom when my liver function test was done on May 19, 2025. My ALT levels were 373, and AST was 319. Both of these are more than 6 times the acceptable levels of 50 or less. Indicating very severe liver damage. This explained why I managed to drink so much, yet not feel drunk, my liver was doing a death rattle, and I would be, soon, if I didn't stop. For the first time in a while, i felt scared to lose my life, I looked back and saw what a coward I'd been. I felt a deep sense of regret, all the people I pushed away, all the problems I avoided, and now it might be too late. I bought a bottle of rum, 1 liter. I poured out 700ml of it and drank the rest. That was 80 days ago, and I haven't had one single drop since. My doctors had given up, not even bothering to schedule an appointment as they knew my cowardly behavior would simply cancel, so I didn't have to face them. After 38 days of absolute sobriety, I messaged my doctor informing her that i took her advice to heart and have removed alcohol from my life, I wanted to come in and get bloodwork done. On July 14th, it came back. ALT levels are 64, AST is 42. My liver healed faster than I ever thought possible, crushing my foolish excuse from before that I was too far gone to heal. With this, I was able to go back on Trikafta, improving my lung function greatly. I got another liver function test done on August 13th, ALT levels are 49, AST is 25. My liver is now healthier than it was a year before I started drinking. I wasn't sure I believed in God, but I prayed for my life to be spared, and I do believe he listened. I'm not sure how I want to celebrate, but you can bet it will involve a lot of family and no alcohol

I'm asking you personally what is your threshold for when you are ok to move in with your partner. this question assumes you have the money necessary to make the move so you can consider other factors here.

many here might say 'whenever we are ready' but is there a 'too fast' for you? how long is 'too fast' for you usually?

There is this leftist, crabby older lady that rents downstairs. She has always had something nasty to say about me, even straight in front of my parents. I am her scapegoat and her target. Some days she can be sweet, others she is the bitch from hell. You never know what day you will get the nice Paula versus the nasty Paula.

Anyways, my dad warned her to stop threatening to call the police on me for arbitrary nonsense. She is like a nosey HOA president that lives below, and she has even been verbally attacking towards my mom.

My parents are separated and live elsewhere now, but I occupy the upstairs. My soon-to-be wife will move in with me shortly.

She threatened me the other day, and I cussed her out. Ever since, I have been unleashing my revenge tenfold. I heard some commotion outside, and I was suspicious of intruders. I opened the door to announce myself, and said "I heard a lesbian outside". It was actually her and she had a bitch response, where I responded "go complain to your carpetmuncher daughter" (her daughter is a lesbian). She responded back "what did you say you little fuck"? I then proceeded to slam the door as I went back inside.