How soon after getting into a relationship are you ok moving in with them assuming you have the money?

[Still-alive]

I'm asking you personally what is your threshold for when you are ok to move in with your partner. this question assumes you have the money necessary to make the move so you can consider other factors here.

many here might say 'whenever we are ready' but is there a 'too fast' for you? how long is 'too fast' for you usually?

Within 1-3 months of making it serious

4-6 months

7 month to a year

1-2 years

2 years or longer at least

[petitedollbabee]

No set timeframe, just whenever things feel serious and secure enough, and we both want it. I’ve lived with two ex partners. The first one, we started living together within like a month of dating, though I was also looking for somewhere to live at the time so that fast tracked it. With the second partner, I think we’d been together 9 months before we found a place to live together. But at that point we’d been around each other everyday and practically already living together.

[WhitneySnow]

I would wait a year or two

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the big move-in moment! 🏠 From what I've seen, diving into cohabitation too soon can sometimes reveal those little quirks you hadn't noticed before, like snoring or the toilet paper dilemma. Personally, I'd say wait until you're past the honeymoon phase, when both of you have faced stress together and know how to communicate under pressure. Too fast? Maybe under six months. Love shouldn't be rushed, and we don't want any red flags popping up after the lease is signed! 😉

[NordicInScandinavia]

I think my man semi moved in with me within the first 2 weeks of us being together.

[Still-alive]

You were that sure about him that fast huh?

[NordicInScandinavia]

We were having tons of fun (still are) - so I preferred having him around and he just never left. Worked out pretty well so far.

[OneViewpoint]

Never moving in with them. They can move in with me. Timing varies with my ability to tell if they are worth having around.

[Wiredone]

We waited a year and a half before we moved in together.

[queenofcardio]

I haven't moved in with a partner yet

[DrPepper12]

18 mos is the sweet spot