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I saw somebody say this and it makes perfect sense. I will start using this as a 1-10 scale for girl's slut level.

If you treat a girl like she's worth more to you than anything or anyone else in the world, including yourself, then she's guaranteed to find you repugnant for treating her like that, and for making her feel valued by you. When you tell a girl that you love her more than life itself, that she's the most precious person in the world, that she's the most beautiful person in the world, that's she's smart and talented and amazing and incredible and all the rest of it... There's no easier or quicker way to turn any girl off sexually, lose her interest along with any hint of affection she might have had for you, and get ditched/rejected by her.

On the other hand, if you treat a girl like she's the least valuable thing in the world, worth less to you than nothing, then she's guaranteed to find you attractive for treating her like that, and for making her feel like you devalue her. Deny it all you want, girls, but it doesn't make it any more true. When you tell a girl that you don't give a fuck about her, what she wants or how she feels, tell her that she's a worthless cheap whore or slut who's good for nothing besides getting fucked by you, tell her that she's dumb and incompetent and worthless and lacking in all aspects... That's the definition of what dirty talk is. And that's what all guys have to do to get girls wet, to arouse them sexually and capture their affections.

Why is this? Why do girls universally find it so abhorrent and sexually unattractive for men to love them and value them, while finding it so desirable and sexually unattractive for men to hate them and devalue them?

It seems to me that these days men in general aren't allowed to have standards. and if a man dares to admit that he dislikes a certain trait in a potential partner many people start accusing him of all sorts of things, basically if a guy wants a girl that is not a slut he is called weak, insecure and with no character, if a guy wants a girl who is a good mother and can cook and clean he is deemed an asshole or too shitty of a boyfriend, if a guy doesn't want a girl who has plenty of guy friends he's called insecure and should just shut up and deal with it cause a girl is not going to change anything to make the guy she wants to marry happy, and the list goes on...

But what about women standards? they haven't changed much really, tall, good looking, good job, money, fun and interesting personality and being wanted by other females, which is why players get all the chicks, ( lets be realisitic here, they have sex a lot... with women, so saying that their games dont work on women is dumb and ignorant at best ) .