Search Results: asking her to lose weight

What do you think when you see a girl with chubby legs?

Is it unattractive or weird looking esecially on an Asian girl? I'm asking because guys always say the reason they like Asian girls because they are short and 95lbs thin. I am tall and nowhere near 95lbs so I don't fit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Semi-close friend has changed how she is acting towards me. Is she wanting something more?

I've known this girl for ~3 years. I first met her, and her group of girls, when she dated a friend of mine for a month or so (they never even had sex). It was a clean break, and her and her friends were a lot of fun,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Is it possible to get all of my daily nutritional value in a single meal?

What is a certain small meal that would be loaded with enough nutrition to get me my necessary daily nutritional value? I'm asking this because i am hoping to lose more weight by eating one meal a day again (ive alredy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can a guy get a bad reputation from asking out too many girls?

I never asked out girls during high school and my first two years of college because I was fat. I worked hard to lose weight and get into shape, and now I ask out girls all the time. I've gotten a few dates but don't have...

HikerDude

Yoda Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

How important is a guys body?

I'm constantly asking questions because of my self esteem and confidence. Most of is do to my body image. I've recently lost weight but I'm still flabby. Will girls really care. I no my personality is great but I'm just...

Rloco

Explorer Age: 34

Dating

Guys with bad look why you dont change your look to get girlfriend?

Many of you ask how to get girlfriend but a lot of you have bad look why you dont work on your look? Let the confidence the high self steem esteem whatever why you dont do diet to lose weight? Why you dont look at G...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Look?

Should I lose some fat?

(I know I'm not fat, I'm just wondering if I have a little excess stomach fat is all) Not weight, but rather fat. My abdomen is kinda squishy. Here is the photo As you can see the area is sort of lumpy. It's not muscle I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

(I know I'm not fat, I'm just wondering if I have a little excess stomach fat is all) Not weight, but rather fat. My abdomen is kinda squishy. Here is the photo As you can see the

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Dating

Girl friend came back and she's really pretty now, how to ask her out?

I'm had a friend in highschool named Lena. Lena was a bigger girl and and was really awkward. But she was really nice and smart so I talked to her, she didn't have many friends so we became close. But we were always just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I'm 30 and childless. Does this reflect upon who I am as a person visually and mentally?

Hi there. I just turned 30 two weeks ago and have been with the same man for the past 4 (going on 5 years). All of my friends have kids, or are pregnant. Most of them can't afford the children they have but their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Would you date the former fat girl turned beauty queen?

Lets say you grew up with the "fat girl" you went to high school with her and have known her for years, and never paid her any attention romantically, Or maybe even found her unattractive due to her body size. If she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Lets say you grew up with the "fat girl" you went to high school with her and have known her for years, and never paid her any attention romantically, Or maybe even found her

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Health & Fitness

Best workouts to burn fat?

I'd just like to clarify, I am not 'fat' nor do I think I'm fat. I'm not asking this to look better for anyone around me, I want to lose weight for myself and my own confidence... Just in case any of that came to mind! :)...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

A female friend of mine knows I don't work out, though I do some biking and stuff in the summer, but she asks me to work out with her, a regular?

does a girl inviting a guy friend to the gym mean anything? if I am not a gym person? she has a bf of a long time, why would she go with him? I tried going once with her, and I really only did treadmill and stationary...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Have you ever dealt with a judgmental doctor?

I've dealt with a few of them... The first time was with an gynecologist. Before she examined me, she asked my age, height, and weight. When I told her how much I weigh, she asked "Have you ever heard of a dietitian?"...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My Abusive Relationship

I want to share the story of my past relationship, hopefully to give people some insight on what abusive relationships are like and how patronising abusers can be. I hope this will give any current victims some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Health & Fitness

Is it alright to lose this much weight? How should I do it?

So I feel fat pretty much all the time and I hate eating, I always feel guilty after. I try not to eat more than 700 calories a day. I'm 5'7" and 147lbs and I wanted to be around 110 maybe. Also I have tummy fat I need to...

MishaMikado

Xper 6 Age: 30

Dating

Why is my boyfriend so shady?

Where to start? My boyfriend is just shady. I'm not a naturally mistrusting person, in fact I often trust too easily, and I've been lucky to never have been badly burned in a relationship before, so I have no reason to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Ladies, I'm going to post a few emails I have exchanged with this girl. I would love to know what you think. Is she flirting or just being friendly?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

We are both grown ups in our late 30's. She was my daughter's teacher last year and I think she is gorgeous, but we are just acquaintances. by the way I know she has a boyfriend. I

We are both grown ups in our late 30's. She was my daughter's teacher last year and I think she is gorgeous, but we are just acquaintances. by the way I know she has a boyfriend. I emailed her at the beginning of the year asking her to join me in a 10K in the spring. She responded after a couple of days:
Hey there! I promise I did not forget about you :) I have been thinking about it! A 10k was something I never thought I could do. I am currently training (ha) .. really trying to lose weight, tone up and get in better shape as we speak. I am following the t25 workout program which is extremely tough. I am sooo out of shape. I hear you about being in denial…I thought I was in better shape than I really am. I would be happy to help motivate you. I can say that I would be willing to try a 10k but can’t commit.. lol I am just not sure I have the endurance but I can say that at this time It could be a consideration. Let me get back into using my treadmill and continue this program and see how I feel in like a month. We will continue to talk.
ME: Oh my God, look at you doing the T25, because you are oh sooo overweight and out of shape. You are perfectly fine! I'm beginning to think that you were not actually thinking about it, you just wanted to be a few days of training ahead of me. When Izzy told me what you said I was like: "Now I have to apologize to her, I didn't mean to scare her with the word 10k". You are underestimating yourself, of course you are capable of finishing a 10k, I've seen you run! XD. It's all in your head, if you are mentally strong enough to deal with 20 something 3rd graders all day... We can even go for a couple of drinks after the 10k to recoup, there is an extra incentive haha. In all seriousness, if you really are doing the T25 I'm absolutely sure you will kick my butt during Fun in the Sun this year. I better not show up :P
HER: Lol…That is a great way to start off a Friday . You had me laughing. The mental part is my biggest challenge :)

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Health & Fitness

Does that mean I lost motivation to workout?

I'm a bodybuilder I played for 10 years but with this new year I feel I dont want to do squat or lift heavey weight I feel it become boring 6 meal a day 4 hours gym around 100 weekly only for food, i took vacation to feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Look?

Do I need to get a grip or lose some weight?

I'm a 16 year old girl and am 5 foot 8 inches. I weight 72 kilos (169 pounds) and have 12D (34D) boobs. I feel weird asking this but lately people have been hinting over weight. Am I?

Creativityblock02

Xper 4 Age: 29

I'm a 16 year old girl and am 5 foot 8 inches. I weight 72 kilos (169 pounds) and have 12D (34D) boobs. I feel weird asking this but lately people have been hinting over weight. Am I?

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Health & Fitness

Asking girls: How many calories are you eating per day?

How many calories do you eat per day? And how many calories did you eat or are you eating when you want to lose some weight?

Anonymous

(36-45)