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My relationship ended recently, because my ex-boyfriend and I had trouble seeing a future together that would be successful. A few months ago a met this guy at work. He is extremely sweet and gorgeous. I had to do a double take when I saw him. I decided not to go up and introduce myself, like I woulda normally done in the past, because I still had a boyfriend at the time. He ended up looking for me and introducing himself to me! I blushed, which is something I haven't done over a guy since middle school.

This guy was kinda pursing me. We work at a nursing home, and he used to work third shift, but he would come in the morning. I'm pretty sure he made excuses to come in at work to bump into me. His grandma was also there and he would visit with her. We usually ended up talking to each other a long time, and having some nice conversations. The conversations ended up being long and the grandma didn't like it. Later on she grew to like me though and I had some nice conversations with her after that. I even met his dad and got to talk to him. When I bumped into his dad one day he asked if his son and I had spoken recently.

When his grandma passed, I was really upset about it too. I ended up asking a coworker for his number and texted him. A few days later I got a friend request from him. The day before I broke up with my boyfriend, I noticed that he was in some pictures with a girl. From what the girl posted it sounded like she thought they could have a future together. I don't think he's "officially" dating this girl, because of his status and he didn't post or like anything on the pictures. They also may have gone on a trip together. The timing was just aweful! I really wanted to get to know this guy and possibly date him.

So my question is.. Should I text this guy to start a conversation, ask him to get some coffee or lunch, or just not message him.

Also if you do think I should text him, what should I say? and how do I mention I am now single?

I haven't elaborated on my dating life but to make the long short I am single ☺. My long term boyfriend and I have split due to infidelity on his behalf and I tried to stick it out but I just couldn't. On a lighter note I've met this guy at my job. And I already know its not good to talk or fondle around with coworkers but he seems worth the trouble. We've been chatting this whole month and we've went out twice. He's extremely sweet and he's a Leo (I'm into astrology... I am a Libra btw). We have great chemistry and share similar past experiences. We've kissed before and we've even talked about other things 😏 At work we keep it on the dl (down low for all my non short hand readers) and we don't distract each other or do anything that makes people suspicious of our relationship. He's extremely attractive mentally and physically. I would be lying if I said I didn't want to screw him. I don't want him to have it too soon thou but when you have a very high drive shit gets difficult 😂 My question is should I pursue him relationship wise or is it still to early? We're moving at a good pace but I don't want it to be one of those things where it feels like its gunna happen but it never does because you didn't shoot for it.

My boyfriend and I are both 21 and have been dating for just over three years. Recently one of his coworkers who is a much older woman, somewhere around 50 years old, has asked him to be her date to her daughter's wedding. The daughter getting married is somewhere around 30 years old.

At first I was okay with the idea, because she is so much older, but now I have begun to rethink this all. This weekend it was brought to my attention that he doesn't always behave what most would consider to be "appropriate" for someone who is in a relationship, around other girls our age.

We were out with friends, two other guys and two other girls, when we ran into two more guys and one more girl. The girl we ran into is always overly friendly with him and often ignores that I'm even there. The two other girls we were with, one of the other guys, and myself were all concerned with the way they interacted with each other. The other girls and guy brought it to my attention that they were concerned, I did not bring it up first, so I know they weren't just agreeing with me.

It also made me realize a while back that a different girl had sent him a full body picture of herself to show him her "outfit". Being a girl myself I know that isn't something girls send to any guy and I would not send something like that to a guy I wasn't interested in.

I feel like he is sometimes too friendly towards other girls, giving them the wrong ideas, and this is a bad representation of us and our relationship and also disrespectful to me, his girlfriend.

I now think him going as this older woman's date to a wedding would reflect poorly on us and our relationship as well. Am I right in thinking so?