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27F, I hate to describe this as daddy issues. For the most part, my dad and I have gotten along. My parents divorced when I was 8, after that he started to take his frustrations out on me (mom cheated). At around 23 I got tired of it, I moved out of state to live w my gma at 13 but we talked over phone. I pretty much said fuck him and didn’t talk to him for three years. My parents are still good friends, my mom has been with the same guy and my dad is single I think.

For over a year, my dad and I rekindled. He seemed to change with me, I think he knows I’m not taking that anymore and we never argue. But I’m irritated when he calls too often. My mom can call me whenever (I have resentment towards her too) and I have no prob. My dad calls too frequently (more than once a week) and I get irritated.

He just annoys me, he asks me the same questions frequently and I put him in his place lol. I know he remembers, my mom blames it on him not knowing what to say to me. My dad doesn’t have a good relationship with his family, everyone always makes the excuse that I’m all he has. My moms family is shit too but I guess she has a boyfriend and 2 other kids.

What frustrates me is that really isn’t my fault, I always think what if I was married or had kids. I would have to coddle and make time for my dad then too? I’m single, no friends and don’t feel like I need to talk to my parents that often.

TL;DR: am I being too harsh with my dads need to talk with me often?

So my boyfriend was playing a video game and I asked him to use his insta because mine wasn’t working well (not to self he doesn’t use social media like that so he doesn’t have the insta app so he uses it on the internet) anyways he said no when I asked saying that he would have to log in etc so while he was playing the game I went on and I saw that he looked up his ex girlfriend I asked y and he said out of curiosity and tbh I don't know if this is normal to look up ur ex etc because I don’t so when I said that I freaked out because he said “I looked out of curiosity to see if she’s dead or alive I don’t hate the girl” tbh I just wanna know if I’m being over dramatic or I have a right to be mad. Also we met in October 2020 and he came from gorgia to NEW YORK we met at work and apparently her birthday is New Years, his sister is friends with her so back den he lied and said she was in the car with his sister when he called so out of respect he wished her happy birthday but 2 days ago I found out that he actually called her and wished her happy birthday because he said he promised before he left gorgia that he will call her on her birthday He also went along and said that she was his best friend. I just wanna know how I should feel cause it’s 2022 now and we still together. Am I being over dramatic or I just be mad.