My boyfriend slapped me Hard on the Face and now What?

[Anonymous]

So the day before we got in a dumb argument I tried to say what upset me and all he would do was to say “I don’t care, I could not care less, I will not help” so I got mad and started hitting him but it was mostly on his back and legs nothing on his face. The next day his friend that I hate called and we started arguing again because he would meet him and out of no where he gave me a super slap on the face because I was complaining about his friend. This day I did not hit him so I was not expecting, of course I hit him more after after he slapped me and decided to break up our almost 4 years relationship. But he does not leave my house he creeps crying every-time I say we broke up but I am done with him. Mostly because after he slapped me he went to play videogame with his friend and have a nice day he also told him what happened and his friend did not care at all and they both cops. Anyway what should I do for him to leave and stoop coming home and sleeping here. I can’t change the keys too expensive can’t move too expensive he uses the window to Enter the house sometimes when I lock him outside and doesn’t leave I don’t wanna call the cops because he is one.

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+1 y

I understand I should not have hit him but a man should never hit a women and I am decided to break up with him so stop saying “you deserve it “ because I AM BREAKING UP WITH HIM ALREADY AND I WANT HIM OUT OF MY LIFE

[ohshee]

You asked and now what.
That's going to be your choice he just showed you exactly who he is when he gets angry
Now if you did it once he's going to do it again because you allowed it would be to walk away
I don't care how angry you are you do not hit somebody because your angry because you feel like hitting them to make yourself feel better that is called bullshit that is called abuse and that is not love I hope you can look way further than what happened or what was said look at it for what it is he hit you because you were telling him how you felt and he didn't like it
so he
Hit you to control you that's bulshit

[GlassTop]

What did the five fingers say to the face? SLAP!!! I love how you completely left out that you hit your boyfriend first in the title. Always the victim. I know you must be a nightmare.

[Anonymous]

YOU'RE BOTH AS BAD AS EACH OTHER.
he shouldn't react like that when you are trying to tell him what upset you at all. But You should Not hit him!!! Why would you? He feels the exact way you do when you hit him, now he's hit you back... and it's all his fault? You hit him first, what did you expect him to do?
You are both awful people for hitting one another. But you cannot sit and play victim here. You were majorly at fault too. Break up and move on with your life, n stop hitting people.

[AvaOneLasTime]

I am not taking your side here. You hit him yourself, first and multiple times! I have no interest in taking your side, sorry.

[Vesuvius87]

Another one of those questions where the girl isn't too innocent. I don't think either of you deserve to be in a relationship. Just break up and stay single.

[Sasha_Gee]

A little argument made you answer with violence, prompting him to do the same. It might be better to go separate ways.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, you hit first. You escalated it to violence.
Time to breakup.

[Better_off_here]

just get a restraining order on him and move on with your life. but know most men do not treat women that way. you may of not have needed to post here you seem to already know what to do about this guy. but good luck.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Stop being dumb...
If don't want to call the cop than stop asking this question.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Why man shouldn't hit the woman? 😂

[Asker]

To not lose her because now he is there crying like a babe and I could not care less

[Sam_The_Savage]

He is an asshole...
He should kick ya ass asap.

Few guys are such a simp

[Bubbles16]

I think you should leave before something bad happens to you

[May_Summers]

You hit him first, so you should have expected the response.

[JamesRandiDebates]

If you take up with pigs, expect them to act like pigs.

[spartan55]

You are both morons with no self control.

[slatyb]

Call a women’s shelter for advice.

[skyeee_]

both of you, get your shit together

[barn_stormer]

you hit him first. you deserve what you get.

[barn_stormer]

you're a stupid bitch. he's better off without you.

[Asker]

Yep so he can go and slap other woman at least this one he is not slapping anymore ;)

[Luckycharms12]

Leave him and never return

[Anonymous]

What is your question dear?

[JessieBellll]

You deserved it