Well you did something that "I knew he hated" ( precisely what you said) hitting may have been a bit far but you he hated it so why'd you do it.
Technically you caused the chain of events to unfold.
As in what do you do
Relationships don't work the way the do in to and movies, will they won't they and they finally do and they're happy forever, give me a break. 9 out 10 of them end because they weren't right for each other to begin with and half of all those who get married get divorced anyway. And I'm telling you right now through all this stuff I haven't become a cynic, I haven't. Yes I do believe that love is mainly about pushing chocolate covered candies and in some cultures a... chicken. You can call me a sucker I don't care, but it's couples that are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everyone else but they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up for that relationship every time if it's right, and they're real lucky. One of them will say something.
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Yeah uh u pull someone's pants down you're gonna get a reaction. It's a reflex, not a choice of his. It's like sneaking up on someone and they defend themselves. Actually that's exactly what happened.
Life advice: Don't meddle in something u can't wrestle to the ground
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Yeah he didn't hit you involuntarily. No one involuntarily makes a gesture like that without some kind of outside intervention.
He hit you, he made the decision to hit you in retaliation of what you did to him. Where you go from here is up to you, but often such behavior can be a prelude to worse things so I say approach this with an extra air of caution.
To me, it does sound like something involuntary, a reaction to what you did to him that he didn't know was going to happen. It doesn't sound to me like he meant to do it. Your choice though, but it might be best not to do something to your partner that you know that hate.
You don't 'involuntarily' slap someone. And you certainly don't apologise by saying it wasn't even that hard. Its your decision but sounds like this could be a warning of what could happen.
this is what happens when practical jokes and horseplay get taking to far someone ends up crying. I suggest you grow up and get over it.
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I would stay. I'm going to get a lot of hate for this, but you prompted it and the blame fell on you. You said you knew he hated it, did it anyway, and suffered the consequences.
"He tried to defuse saying it was a joke and it wasn’t even that hard." Yeah, cause he probably didn't realize how hard it was until he genuinely saw how bad he'd hurt you. He then came to you to apologize.
I've been in a similar position. My brother jump-scares me often, and once or twice I've slapped him because he startled me incredibly badly and I tried to defend myself from this "threat."
In short, there is no way in hell I'm getting MHO but you needed to see thisSounds like you gotta do some dumping.
That wasn't involuntary, he slapped you because you pulled down his boxers, he knew what he was doing.
What's next, an involuntary punch?
Break up with him, you don't need someone that gets violent every time you do something that bothers him.Miss... I think you need to understand the difference between violence with intent and violence without.
1) means he genuinly wants to hurt you
2) and the other means it was a mistake and accident.
If i heard my girlfriend was scared of me because i accidentally hit her i would find it grounds for break up.Forgive and move on, if it was only a one time thing and he was really sorry then it's fine, everyone makes mistakes when they lash out in anger. If its a repeating thing though, you should leave or get some counseling with him
Is there any history of him having shown violent behaviour? If yes, then this can be a red flag. If not, then maybe he just wanted to give you a light "joking" slap and kinda messed up moving too hard.
I think it was more like when you're shocked and you lash out, it's an impulse and not something you even think about
Wtf? That's some bs excuse. That's abuse. Just cause he "cried" and apologize that doesn't mean it won't happen again.
Hun, no guy should lay a hand or slap any girl we all know that's wrong.
Any girl could play around with me and I'm not going to do anything
Even my third cousin hugged me extremely tight i hugged her back
but never freaked out.You did do something he HATED. There is disliking something and HATING, don't do that. Learn from this if you want to stay with this guy.. I say IF
Not going to defend what he did, but why THE FUCK do you do things he hate?
If the roles were switched you be back lashed in the comments
wait, he slapped you with his hand because you got mad because he pulled down his boxers and flashed you?
How long were you with him for
It wasn't an accident
Well now u know he's abusive so leave or be beaten
You should dump him
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