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Many men are bitter about the OkCupid study that found most men rated as unattractive while most women were rated as decent-looking or better.

My question is: what do these guys expect? Many guys claim that they just roll out of bed and put on clothes and then start their day. I was shocked to learn most men don't even put a comb through their hair.

Compare to women. Many women spend up to an hour on their hair, 20 minutes doing makeup, etc.

I guarantee that if most women followed the same routine as men (roll out of bed, don't put on makeup, don't touch their hair) they would be rated as poorly as most men.

How can men expect to be seen as attractive after 2 minutes of effort as women are seen after 40 minutes of effort? Can someone explain that to me?

I’m not into politics that much but I want to actually be involved this time even though i think both candidates are bad options lol.
Anyway here are my views on certain things

1. Abortion is bad it’s literally going to turn into a human like you were right when the sperm reaches the egg, it’s life. Also i think we should do something more for rape victims.

2. Healthcare: not having it does push people to make more money but We should keep it because not everyone was born into wealth. Also Healthcare is free almost everywhere else & by not having it anymore will show how they don’t give a crap about our lives everyone’s going through other expenses already.


3. Immigrants: there’s bad people in America, most immigrants come here for good reasons though & they help out by doing jobs most Americans wouldn’t do. I get they should do it legally just out of respect & to be on the safe side.


4. Gun control : I’m for it. Let’s be real America is crazy we need more gun restrictions.

5. Education: I’m for public schools & paying taxes for it because everyone deserves a chance to learn & be successful money shouldn’t even be mentioned when it comes to education. Not everyone is born into wealth and let’s be most private schools do have better education.

6. Death penalty: We as the imperfect humans we are should never have the power to end someone’s life. Yes life is crazy, but we shouldn’t act like kids & seek for revenge right away. we should make strict laws to where if someone did something extreme like shot up a school they get life & can never come out of jail.

So, I applied for a sign spinning job and got Hired the next day. So, I go for training and then after training the boss tells me they're firing me because they found better sign spinners. So, then I have to go home and tell my family that they just fired me. After that, I applied to work for a restraunt and once again I got a email saying they rejected me because they found someone with more experience. My mom was having a obvious affair at the time and things were really bad at home. I was thinking of making money in horrible ways like panhandling or escorting. Now it's at the point where I'm starting not to care what people think or even morals anymore.

If I ask for help I'm shamed for being a burden, if I don't have a job I'm considered a wrothless leech, if I escort then I'm a gold digging black whore who deserves to be killed. I can never win.