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I will say I’m unlucky, I don’t think dating is this hard for the average person. In fact, most people have it easy as long as they’re attractive. Since I’ve been on dating apps on and off for years, that’s the only way I’ve met people but I just never catch a break. The one time I saw someone short term, it felt like settling because no one else gave me attention & he wasn’t physically attractive to me but treated me okay. I always get pursued by the ones I don’t want, if they’re attractive they’re dicks or there’s no connection OR if they’re good looking but decent personality they’re too short for me.

Sometimes the guys on dating apps message and we speak for a little while, but things fizzle out. Out of no where in some cases, they reach out again and come across as unstable or a total asshole wanting to rub something in my face. Look at last post, is this standard of dating apps or am I unlucky?

I really don’t have a desire to be social and meet people in person, it’s so hard to make friends. I’ve never met someone through a friend like most have, I don’t know if even having a dating app profile is worth it. I’ve even tried bumble but it didn’t change my luck, I wanted to be more in control.

Lets suppose that was the only way to attract people: to be bad (steal, say bad words, get into fights, act ghetto, etc)

Or you can stay true to yourself and be on your own. Would you join in the crowd and become someone you're not? Personally I would rather be alone than change my whole personality. If I need to be bad to win someone's approval, that's lame.

Usually Gen Z only children tend to be extremely spoilt and entitled. I’m one of those when I was young. Born as an only child in a family, I was so used to getting things my way. Other Gen Z kids hated me because of my spoilt attitude, I’m not saying all Gen Z only children are extremely spoilt and entitled as it depends on the upbringing but they tend to be in the minority since most only children are spoilt. At 14 I became a narcissist, with a huge ego. There was a clothing shop which creates customised T shirts with any words or prints on them. I wanted to ask them to help me create a T shirt titled “Hot Gen Z Babe”. But I was too embarrassed to let everyone know that I’m extremely narcissistic. Now that I knew my personality sucked, I decided to change for the better. If I were to get married and have a child I would rather get pregnant at 27 though it might not be possible since I’m turning 24 this year and currently single. If you are curious about what are the latest generations, its Generation Alpha born in year 2013 - 2025 and Generation Beta born in year 2025 -2039. I hope I might be an understanding mum and will try my best from preventing him or her to be like me when I was very young. I’m curious how Generation Alpha and Generation Beta will think about life.