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My boyfriend never acts surprised or shows emotion towards me much. So the other day on St Pattys I smoked weed and hookah. I sent him videos. He acted all surprised of me smoking weed. I told him it wasn't my first time I barely do it. So he sent me a picture of his weed which I thought he stopped smoking cause last time we talked he said he doesn't really smoke much. So now he was like "Now I'm going to smoke every second". I told him I don't smoke much and I only smoked cause my brother's girlfriend bro came over and we all smoked (family). I used to get annoyed by him cause he used to get always boast about weed and drugs online and would talk about them like they were all cool. So I told him I thought you didn't smoke weed anymore and he goes "I do sometimes, not all the time" which I feel is a lie. I'm not being a hypocrite I was just annoyed how he acts all excited and surprised cause I smoke weed. What's so surprising about that? Is it just me or is it stupid? I told him I was just annoyed cause he never acts surprised about anything else.. He was also questioning like "How was it?" and was putting cool emojis like the emoji with its tongue out and the emoji with the shades.

So I have a question, since this is becoming more and more common I feel.
Users here throw claim after claim. Then you ask for evidence of them, not just anecdotal, and they tell you "look it up yourself you lazy idiot".
Now I don't know, maybe I am lazy. Maybe I am an idiot, but I always thought it's the person making the claims job to provide sources.
If I tell you I'm Jesus, it's my job to prove that I am, not yours. Or at least that's how I thought it was.

Who's job is it? The person making the claim? Or the person questioning it? Or should we just not even question a claim lacking evidence and just accept it at face value? Thoughts.

Yes I'm petty lol
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