Search Results: let down by guys

Is he seeking revenge?

So a few years ago I was seeing this guy but I was very cold and emotionally unavailable to him, he did everything he can to break down my walls but it didn't work. Then he started talking to another girl and took her out...

lovelycara

Xper 5 Age: 29

I can’t tell if my guy friend is worth dating?

So my guy friend and I have known each other for a year and a half. He’s a really great friend but I can’t tell if he’d be a good boyfriend. He messages me randomly just to say hi and ask how I’m doing, and then have a 5...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Debunking the “HEMA fanatic” biased analysis of Samurai vs Vikings

The “Historical European Martial Arts”(HEMA) community has been around for a few decades, it has only risen in popularity within the last decade. The concept is good as it is meant to rediscover and preserve traditional...

ADFSDF1996

Editor Age: 30

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Girl's Behavior

Would you consider this flirting?

Okay so I was at my brother in laws house with my girlfriend. He is married and we are not. We are having drinks and having a good time. At some point in the night she and him start full on wrestling. Like rolling around...

bgpdizzle

Xper 4 Age: 43

Why is he angry at me for not wanting to date him?

A guy approached me while I was sitting down by myself eating a cup of frozen yogurt and he asked to join so I allowed him to. We had a decent talk long talk then I gave him my number and we went our separate ways (it was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I let him know I’m serious and want to meet his family?

So the dude I’ve been dating for 8 months is a weed smoking guy who isn’t even in college and legit my friends tell me all the time I have more class in my pinky than he possesses in his entire body... but he won’t let me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he interested in me?

So Guys literally confuse me & I don't have a lot of dating experience. So basically I went on tinder & started chatting with this cute guy who's funny & seems pretty decent. We chatted & watched movies together online...

Bundavis96

Xper 3 Age: 30

What Makes You Feel Whole?

I want to ask you a question, but it has a rather circuitous route (welcome to my mind; and I apologize in advance...) And it Begins with Algorithms YouTube is the most-used social media site across the globe. I use it...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Why people become more conservative/libertarian through life's experiences and getting older (CAUTION: LONG READ)

Some people hate that title, but this is true (for the most part). To give you some background I think back to my late teens and early 20's, a time when you are exposed to more politics because of your age and because you...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

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Relationships

I’ve done something I never thought I would... what should I do?

Been with my boyfriend now for 2 and a half years and I’m happy but at the moment we’re seeing each other less because of the global pandemic. Last night I met someone on an online game and we got chatting all night for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a woman stay with a man who commits crimes even when she is completely aware?

So there is a couple just 2 houses down the road from me and they are living there temporarily (cottage) and it's the daughters parents that own the place and do not have a mailing address there because it's not the...

ManHater

Yoda Age: 27

Is He Looking for a Reason to Leave, Even if We Haven't Been Dating That Long?

I'm going to admit that what led up to this was my fault. We had gotten quite physical on the first date, and I ended up panicking about possible pregnancy risks (we ended up going back over that night in detail, and how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Crush has never tried to make me jealous?

Low-key flirting with a guy who works in my neighborhood. One day, there was a girl and a kid he let sit in his seat for work. He was making a point to distance himself from them. When they were gone he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Have you ever reluctantly had to "be the bigger man" towards something?

(Second attempt to write this because this FUCKING mobile site is SO FUCKING BROKEN! ) I just had an altercation with a guy on public transport on my way home. As I was getting on, the guy stopped me and told me I...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

Do you think white men objectify women of color?

Hellooooooo, people! Let me tell you a secret... We white guys don't do things like these: We white guys are not even vocal about our preferences (when we have one, ofc). We don't put white women down just...

IDrinkWhiteGirlTears

Xper 1 Age: 31

Why don't women think realistically about dating?

I just had a conversation with a 35y woman about her dating life. She was complaining about how hard it was to find good men. So I asked her how she defined a "good man" Naturally, she proceeded to give me the mother...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why I supported and still support Donald Trump

This is a random essay I had in my head right now. As a writer, I decided to transfer from brain to fingers to G@G. In 2016, I wasn't a Trump supporter. I voted for him in the way you'd choose a punch in he face over a...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Don't worry, sane rational people. We will eventually win the Culture War.

(Warning: This post is long! 17,000 characters.) I just got home, ate a burger, and I feel surprisingly good. You see, yesterday, Disney and Lucasfilm fired Gina Carano from The Mandalorian, someone who called for unity...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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