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So I feel like there is something that I’m doing wrong or the people around me don’t like me. I’m in my mid twenties and have zero relationship experience. Women I’ve met speak of men that come to them without having to put in any effort. Guys approach them randomly and it blossoms into a relationship. I’m very introverted and have only ever gotten noticed by men I’m not attracted to. And even that happens rarely. People compliment my appearance and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Yet, I’ve gotten more positive than negative feedback. I should say: positive feedback in person and negative feedback on here.

I am on dating apps to keep my options open and even that doesn’t work out. I hear of women that have men waiting to date them and that’s never been my experience. There were guys I’ve stopped speaking to and they move on to the next girl.

Mind you, people tell me I’m more attractive than these guys and these guys easily move on. Either they’re complete players or have a “wonderful personality”. I see women with good looking partners and I don’t think they’re beautiful but they’re still able to find a good looking guy.

I don’t think I’m beautiful but only get attention of men I don’t find physically attractive. And I refuse to settle because those other people didn’t settle either.

Am I just unlucky or is there something I’m missing?