10 Types of Men I Swipe Left on Tinder

[Anonymous]

I am a long time Tinder user and you could say I've been online dating for quite a lot. This myTake is not about someone's physical appearance! These are just some examples I collected throughout my Tinder dating experience. Maybe some will relate and agree, and maybe some might learn a thing or two about Tinder dating from it. Well, here it is:

1. Men with only one photo

I don't care how hot you look like, how amazing the background is or how that one photo clearly shows your full face/body appearance - you will be left--swiped, sorry. The only thing that that one photo tells me is that you are too lazy to take this serious. And with it, other suspicious thoughts arise; is it a fake profile? Is it his one & only decent photo? How old the photo is? etc, etc, etc. I just don't have time nor energy figuring this out. Next!

2. Men with sunglasses on every photo

You clearly do not want to show your face. It's probably because you think it's ugly and hiding it will do a trick. Nope, it doesn't, sorry. Or maybe you think that you look super-badass with them. Well, maybe, but I want to see your freaking eyes! Eyes dude! Or maybe you didn't think about any of it and you just randomly, without even noticing, accidentally put only those photos. Which brings me back to being too lazy or stupid to take this seriously. Or maybe you're blind and don't want to reveal that very important fact. Whatever, next!

3. Multiple men in every photo

Ummm, so which one is you? The hell, dude!? Next!

4. Selfies with another woman

So is she your girlfriend? A wife? A friend? Your non reciprocated love that friend-zoned you? Your sister? Must be a cousin! Probably just showing off because the photo looks better with her on it, like maybe you want to show that women enjoy your company, that you are oh-so wanted and I should definitely pick you? In your dreams. Next!

5. Men with photos that show awesome activities but 0 appearance

Like you made few nice shots doing flip-ups on your snowboarding trip, all wrapped up in your snowboarding uniform that literally shows 0 skin. Nice suite, pal. Next!

6. Men with no photos of themselves

Awww, what a wonderful sunset! Next.

7. Men with sexually provocative photos or bio

Okay, you want to fuck only and you made that very clear by putting some sexual google image or your own dick or your six-pack abs POV while laying on the bed. I respect your honesty, but no thanks. Next!

8. Men with same posture and same face expression on every photo

Are you even a human? Next!

9. Men in gym

I might be one of the rare girls who dislikes this, but there is something really off-putting about that. It pretty much gives me the impression that you are a narcissist. Like, is the fact that you go to gym the only quality about yourself that you have to show? Cool, a gym, wow, so interesting. I-don't-care. Next!

10. Men with no bio, or no distance, or no occupation shown

This brings me back to not taking it seriously. I want to know stuff about you, at least a bare minimum. If you leave everything blank I will think you are either fake or a serial killer or really shallow and stupid to tell something about yourself. And you are probably unemployed or thousand miles away. No matter how good looking I find you, if you don't put any info about yourself I won't be interested. I need more then physical appearance, sorry. Bye, boi!

Well, these are just some of the examples. There are probably more, some minor ones, but I think the ones I put here are definitely my top 10.

Thoughts? :)

[Anonymous]

Yes, agree with most.

If he has any of this:
- Just one picture.
- Can't see what he looks like in his pictures because it's too blurry, a crappy angle, sunglasses, too far away or whatever (this also includes the ones with only group pictures or no pictures of him).
- Picture with another girl.
- Party/drunk pictures.
- Picture in his underwear/bare chesst in bed/sexual pictures.
- Picture with kid/s if it makes me suspect it's his child/ren.
- Picture where he smokes or drinks.
- Pictures where he seems too impulsive, too much of a daredevil or adrenalin junkie, or gives me that impression in his bio.
- If he lists beer, partying, tattoos and/or cars as his interests.
- If he mentions anything about sex or hints about it (for example talks about netflix and chilling) in his bio.
- If he only wants sex, or makes me think he only wants sex.
- If he's a vegetarian or vegan.
- If he's a leftist.
- Says he's restless.
Then it's an automatic no-swipe from me, no matter what he looks like.

[skyylaar]

That’s waaayyy too picky tho if u swipe through with all that in mind you’d probably only swipe on not even 1 dude & miss out on someone with one of them who could be cool. I mean he can’t like cars? come on

[skyylaar]

I get some of them tho it’s jus u can’t go on tinder & expect a serious relationship... it’s a hookup app and that’s what 90% of the dudes on there go on it for

[Opinion Owner]

@skyylaar Too picky for what and who? You? Cause I don't care. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than date any guy that has anything of what I listed in his profile. And for your information, I have no issues finding dates and guys - despite being this "picky".

[Opinion Owner]

@skyylaar It's not a hookup app anymore either. Lot's of people are there to find something serious, including men. I know men who's on there trying to find a girlfriend, I know men who found their girlfriends on there and I see lots of men write in their profile that they're only looking for something serious and to left swipe them if you aren't too. And still, even if 90% of them are there for hookups, then yeah that immediately eliminates 90% of them. No biggie.

[skyylaar]

Lmao not for me, idgaf, you honestly jus sound so stuck up and prissy. but go ahead keep swiping left jus cause he likes cars when he could be ur perfect guy, lata idiot

[skyylaar]

Okie dokie my bad I dunno much about it haha

[Opinion Owner]

@skyylaar You obviously give a lot of fucks cause you cared enough to write to me. What I sound like to you though, I don't care about and you probably don't care that I think you sound like a stupid, naive little bitch who likes to pretend she knows everything better than anybody. I've not asked about your opinion and I don't care if you date low life men (or girls, maybe you're gay... or man. That's more likely) or not. You do your thing and I do mine. Bye

[skyylaar]

Blah blah blah okay firstly bitch, I really don’t. in 100 years you’ll be dead and forgotten about, and why tf would I give a fuck? secondly; I don’t date low life’s, I’m just not a dumbass like u that is gonna turn down a great guy jus cause he likes cars. thirdly, jus cause a girl doesn’t agree with ur dumb prissy little opinion doesn’t mean she’s a dude, now fuck off

[JustWorthlessMe]

wow somebody got triggered

[JustWorthlessMe]

@skyylaar well said

[sasukeuchiha7]

Why can't s guy like cars?

[myTake Owner]

Yeah I totally agree with you Anon. And no, Tinder is not just a hookup app for everyone! Does it say in app description that it is for hookup only? No. It's these dumb, immature people who took the wrong way and labeled it like that, but they are to chicken to approach for a hookup irl. So Tinder is their only shot.

To all those dumb fucks: stop shaming dating apps for your own insecurities! It is a great modern age invention for general dating, and for the record, there are actually more of us on there who do want something serious, then you!

[JesseTheMan]

Oh so you're a conservative prude then?

[Levin]

Definitely could have mud wrestled to solve this.

[Levin]

Don't get the hookup stereotype thing, either.

The vibe I get is, about 10% of women are after a hookup. About 80% are just window shopping for some dream guy, and have no real intent in meeting unless the modern equivalent of Brad Pitt shows up. Rest want to date.

[Anonymous]

I totally agree with you. But i have a list that is 50 items long. Because that's as reasonable as yours.
This one time i saw this supermodel 6-3 rich guy that i confirmed was a millionaire, but i swiped left because he had an eyelash on his cheek.
AN EYELASH!
Can you even freakn imagine!!!
He obviously does not care enough about his profile enough to notice it. Which means he doesn't take this thing seriously.

Seriously though, if he's a white male is enough for me to not swipe left. Because patriarchy.

[pooper89]

The stuff on her list was very reasonable in my opinion.

[coachTanthony]

Most guys will think this is CRACKERS. I know that it's not crackers and when I tell clients, friends, etc that these are the kind of things women don't want to see they somehow get taken back or even insulted. Online Dating is very specific not to be confused with normal everyday life at bars and clubs. There is a specific communication that goes on through photos and bio that is short simple and to the point. We ain't playing detective here. Good take and hopefully Men will go their profiles and make some changes right away after reading this.

[ManOnFire]

I would agree with this. A lot of these are the same things that make me swipe left on chicks when I used to use Tinder. I think I'm a little more conservative and swipe left on probably 60% of women I see there.

Mostly:
- women who are cat and dog lovers
- display their college, degree, or career
- cliche basic bitches who are wine tasters, hikers, campers, rock climbers, romantic evenings in Italy, etc.
- but ESPECIALLY the ones who say "Someone who can make me laugh," "You should message me if..." "Swipe left it..."

[lightbulb27]

that;s funny, so easy bomb in the marketing.

[ricorico]

Tinder want you mixup

[JDavid25]

Damn, you just eliminated most of the profiles.. LMAO.. XD

[ManOnFire]

@JDavid25 I know right? Lol. That really is the majority of them.

[microhorse]

Why is it bad if a woman displays her career or academic achievements? And liking pets? That's a bit picky, most people like animals.

[lightbulb27]

@microhorse my opinion, for women, probably not so bad. But I watched women look at mens profiles and they will toss a guy for any subtle reason. it's marketing.

[ManOnFire]

@microhorse Because I'm not interested in a woman's education or piece of paper she got. I'm not dating her credentials, I'm dating the person, and when a woman is displaying all that superficial stuff it means she wants me to be impressed by her background, and that's not what I care about. I want to know what she brings to the table as a person, what heart, character, values, and intelligence she has.

[StingRayxoxo]

I would also add
11. Men with pictures of their kids- not a safe or appropriate place to put kid pictures

[ricorico]

Yes bether and keep all

[Pinay_ako]

Can't relate. Never been on any online dating websites

[patrickstarz]

Congrats. That means you don't need it

[ricorico]

Maybe body like bar

[Logorithim]

Yeah, those are all examples of bad profiles

[Electric_Dreams]

2. Some people with sensory processing issues, particularly relating to autism, often wear sunglasses. When you make a decision like this you are destroying a chance at finding something that might work out very well over something so petty... you do realise you could talk to the person and if you like them meet them at which point... you get to see their eyes? Patience is a damn good quality. Rare too. Damn rare.

4. Are women this petty, shallow and self-conscious that they will not accept a man having another woman in his photo? You would figure it's not his girlfriend since he's on a dating site. It could be his mum or sister, it could be an indicator that he's a good son or a good brother, that he's supportive and family oriented. You're seriously that possessive that you don't want your partner to be proud of their mum or sister? I get it's a dating site but it could be a photo he likes of himself too, or it could just be that he wants to give a sense of what he's about, such as having women in his life he loves platonically.

5. Again, he probably wants to give prospective partners a glimpse into things he's passionate about. Is it not okay to have photos like this if he also has actual profile-worthy photos too? Some guides to having a good whatever the fuck nonsense dating site profile do advise men to feature photos of them doing things they love.

8. Wow... women are extremely guilty of this. Definitely moreso than men. It's an epidemic. What if it's just a humble smile in every photo and that's not okay? Maybe some guys just don't want to pull stupid faces? It never occurs to them and what you're gonna' choose someone over another because he pulls stupid faces? Not really an important factor. So let me get this straight you don't want men where they look the same in every photo, but you don't want photos of them doing things other than posing for a photo either?

10. Again this is a problem much more prevalent amongst women than men.

I'm not coming down on you specifically, more the attitudes of a generation of people, both male and female. Dating sites are trash. They are having a negative effect on society with regards to dating, relationships in general.

[LoU_Hades]

We should begin with the fact that a man who has a little bit self-confidence and is interested in real relationship seeks his partners in real world (bars, clubs, parties with friends...). Dating site are only local an option and women on dating sites are (at lest here) prostitutes or desperate sluts.
The other problem that females tend to some kind of hypergamy on dating sites because tons of always lonely guys who give them over exaggerated attention. (you're so pretty, so sexy... and such slimy comments)
The third point, internet is a wonderful place for trolling and having fun. But developing of feelings to a person you haven't meet before in person is very dangerous. Your imagination builds up some god/goddess picture in you mind, that hits hard the wall of reality while real meeting.

So you can pick your photos like you want. Visit in a nightclub or good connection to a female friend who couples people together brings you better partner into you bed than tinder. Because you take what you see in real.

[myTake Owner]

Dunno about others but I never developed feelings for someone based off our Tinder chats only. It's only meant for scheduling meetngs.

[microhorse]

As a single parent, it's quite hard to meet people so I actually find dating websites a lot easier to utilise in trying to find someone. I'm not a prostitute or a "slut" (would you say men on there are sluts too as it is a word for someone who is promiscuous? Or are you one of those men who think it's cool for men to sleep around but women are horrible beings for doing that?)

[LoU_Hades]

@microhorse I know what you want to imply. You don't need dating apps to change your partner like gloves, you can do that in bars and clubs as well. If you find that your rotation is with dating sites more effective, so it's you opinion and I accept that. Of course it confirms the first point of my previous comment. Yes, we males are most time of our life 'sluts', because we can if we want to be, but most of us don't complain if somebody calls us that way. We take it with more humor.

[humanearth]

I not sure what tender is. It sounds like it could be a computet dating site.

These are my reason if I ever would use a computer to find a date.

One I would never show my real image. I'm to paranoid about computers, companies and governments spying on me.

Two my Biographies part. Well that would be mostly true, but it won't have nothing to lead back to my real life.

Three well you probably need a cell phone or something stupid like that. That's a laugh, I never owned a cell phone in my life. Home phone is good enough for me.

Four. Well you probably need a social media account to. Another joke right there. I never did that either. This site is the closest I have ever came to social media.

Five. I rather find a date like my parents did. In real life. The person on the computer could be a spy to steal your countries secrets and probe your brain for alien life forms. That were planted by the CIA. When your born.

Six I'm wondering if you are still reading this pack of shit I'm feeding you. Because computer dating is the governments way of controling the masses.

Seven Hitler was really a woman and was Obama's misstress of the dark in the 60s. Don't believe me. Good don't because it's true

[Anonymous]

Women get dolled up and take pics at just the right angle, just the right lighting, best filter they can find, etc... And fool themselves into thinking that's what they actually look like. Then start thinking they're too hot for an average-looking man when they're actually last-call beer-goggle fodder.

The internet is a fantasy land. The main reason I've never used dating apps is because I know I'd be harsh as fuck if some swamp monster showed up for a date after digitally making herself hot.

Actually happened with a girl I met through Facebook. Saw her in person one night and she came up and said hello. I introduced myself and she tried to make me feel silly because we knew each other through Facebook. I told her I didn't recognize her, so she told me her name. I must've stood there with a confused look for ten seconds. She looked like the ugly half-sister of her digital self.

So just FYI, most or all of you look way better online. I'd say a solid 3 points better. Stop being so damned haughty, 'cause you ain't what you think.

[myTake Owner]

Oh, I could write another take just for women, lol. But I'm straight... But I totally get you, women are even worst. I think I'd swipe left on most of them, lol.

[Opinion Owner]

My point is that women are super picky because they've filled themselves into thinking they're worth more than they are.

Most of your points focus on appearance, indicating that you think you're hot enough to be picky about it. I don't know what you look like, but if you're like 90% of the women who use online dating services, you should probably take a close look at some of the pics friends have tagged you in rather than the filtered and perfect pics you post yourself.

[myTake Owner]

At least I'm making an effort, unlike some guys who do online dating. They start online dating because they suck at approaching irl, so they think it will be easy online. And why the hell do I need to compare myself with anyone? Who I like and what I want is my own business. Just because someone is not attractive doesn't mean they should settle down and pick only unattractive partners as well. Just because I don't like certain types of people, doesn't mean no one does. Everyone should have the freedom to pick what they like, regardless of how they look themselves. No one has the right to judge someone's preferences, no matter how ridiculous they seem! It's a matter of taste and it's personal, so stop being so fucking judgmental, it won't change anything. Some people will like you, some won't. Can't we all just deal with it already and move on?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not the one who wrote a novella on what you should or shouldn't do on your online dating profile. I just see a lot of women who have a ridiculously high opinion of themselves judging men for shallow stuff when they're digitally disguising themselves.

[myTake Owner]

The truth is that everyone wants the best of the best. It's in our nature, can't fight that. So instead of bitching about how you are never picked, why don't try to be that best? You are perfectly aware of in what kind of cruel world we live in, it's a freaking survival here. Lazy fuckers are not going to survive, especially in this modern age when knowledge and information is available to almost everyone for free. It's a rat race. It just seems to me that most men haven't realized yet how times have changed and how they need to change to. If they continue with this cave-man behavior they will get exterminated. This is the age where we need to use our brains to the fullest if we wish to survive. If you are so sick of women only picking rich and attractive men, then go study, learn new stuff, invent something, earn a lot of money, hit the gym and fix your face with your money. Actually, you don't even need the money, you just need to stand out as the best at something. Now that's a real effort! And yes, effort is attractive. There are so many people in this world who made it big because they worked their asses off to make it happen, and here you are judging my dissatisfaction in 80% men who can't even make a decent Tinder profile (which takes like 10 minutes). You've got to be joking! No one likes lazy people who just do nothing but complain. Even those dolled up bitches who got themselves rich pimps are smarted then lazy assholes, because they are doing whatever is necessary to survive and hopefully enjoy it a bit. Don't think for a second that they did not sacrifice some things along that way. And don't make me even start on how much effort and pain it takes a woman to make herself look pretty every day. It'd be great if we'd get some effort in return as well, you know?

[myTake Owner]

Why would a woman go for an average dude like you when she has an option to get a successful man with goals, ideas, rising career, lost of money, etc? She can have better. If you want to blame someone, blame mother nature for giving her something that that successful dude sees attractive in her and would take her. Probably the same thing you see in her as well. You can't hate or judge her for wanting the best. You can only try to be even better and hope that, at that time when you succeed, a woman that you choose will see the same thing in you as that other woman saw in that other guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice assumption. Too bad it's dead wrong. If I want some action, I go out and get it. I've never had a need for online dating sites.

I particularly love your comment about how much effort and pain it takes to be pretty. My girlfriend looks incredible without makeup. If you have to work your ass off and hurt yourself to be presentable, you're not attractive. And you swipe left because a guy's only got one photo on his profile? Maybe if you didn't have to spend all your time and effort to make people think you're pretty, you could afford to spend a little time getting to know someone before rejecting them for something so... I don't have a better word than stupid for this one.

[myTake Owner]

About digitally disguising... well women do that in real life too. It's called insecurities. But yeah some women over do it and I don't get it, if I was a guy I'd swipe left in one millisecond on that.

[Opinion Owner]

I've talked to a lot of men about this and you just don't have a clue until you meet them in person. I even had one chick send me a friend request on Facebook while she was sitting a few feet away from me at a bar. According to a female friend, the girl wanted me to look at her pics before she met me so I'd be attracted to her. It was so filtered, it looked nothing like her. Then she tried to call me shallow for calling her out on it.

Catfishing. Subtle, but still catfishing.

[myTake Owner]

Then why the hell are you posting an opinion when you 0 experience in online dating? You pretty much have no idea how it is, you just like to be judgmental. I'm not going to spend effort to get to know the guy who can't even put few more pictures of himself. Why should I? The more info, the better. There are millions of other guys with more info on Tinder that will save me time for I won't need to ask for more stuff about him. Time is precious.

And for the record, I wasn't talking about myself with makeup, I actually don't use any. I like it natural.

[Opinion Owner]

Just making an observation. I don't have to have years of Tinder experience to have an opinion. I have years of experience with women. Face to face experience. And I can tell you that if I was on tinder, I wouldn't post anything that a shallow gold-digger would want to see. I make good money, drive a nice car, am accomplished and still ambitious. Not model hot, but well above average. Great in bed and well endowed. But I'd never let on. I don't tell that info in person, you have to get to know me first. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and she just found out how much I actually make.

I would probably post mediocre pics of myself and focus on intellect and personality rather than what the average high-and-mighty get-all-I-can-get basic ho wants to see. I would WANT women like that to swipe left.

[myTake Owner]

Lol, that's like a girl having a really nice body or face, but hiding it on purposely because she wants a guy to swipe her for her "soul" and "heart". That's so stupid.

[crazy8000]

Have noticed that most females do this on tinder and even tries to project body parts to get a decent match and whines in the text no hoockups ones only serious.
Have also noticed a lot uses selfies with filters like the beauty filter that makes them look like a bad photoshopp makeover to make them look they have smoother skin.
Even passive ones that doesn't put any effort or have no social skills when texting, are shallow as fuck or tries to get to know through text to get a spark through text.
Tries to paint up themselves to something they aren't. mostly uses emoji to describe themselves if they have any in the text.

Want to get thing's served on silver plate, effortless sex.

Lies what they are after until they have past a certain point and than think they should get away with it just because they are a girl or because it's them.

Stating political and ideological thing's in profile like femenists/political likes or dislikes.
(this one says the person is narrow minded also suffers from certain mental issues)

Think they are God's gift is also very common.

Just like 15 years ago, most female's on dating services are the ones that was called bottom scrapings.

All that and a lot more is the reason I mostly have ben doing research online about people behavior and communication.

[MlleCake]

Also anyone who has "Hard Knocks" as their education, or a bullshit job like "Captain, Starfleet".

Not that hard - try putting on a decent button-up shirt with a collar, wash your face, neaten up your facial hair if you have it, get a decent haircut - take a full face and torso pic. Best if it's in daylight, taken by a friend.

Some women hate the cigar pics. Some women hate the pictures of you holding a big dead fish. Guns in your pics? Really?

Pictures of just your dog are not so great, even if your dog is adorable.

We want to see YOU. Your eyes, your face, your genuine smile.

[Snakeyes7]

I have several things I’d like to comment:

1. Does it ever occur to you that some men go to the gym because they have shit to burn off? I promise you that is hardly the case in most men and you will find out immediately if he is arrogant if you talk to him.

2. Could an exception be made for 4 if he explains who the girl is in his picture?

3. I heard that a dating hack is to include a pet in the picture. I put my cat who I grew up with in my profile and nothing changed so I guess I MUST have a dog otherwise no one cares. I get that some people are allergic but wtf is peoples’ issue with cats?

[JesseTheMan]

For me:

1. Says "looking for something serious and not hookups" because 99% of the people saying that are lying
2. Too picky and arbitrary about about men on Tinder (cough COUGH)
3. A conservative or a right-winger
4. A openly and actively religious person unless it's scientology
5. Not intellectual enough
6. Pretends to be houlier-than-thou even tho they're on fuckin Tinder looking for some some guy to bang them (kinda relates to No.2)
7. A annoying prude regarding stuff like swearing, alcohol, drugs, sex, politics etc.

[Rico12309]

You see I was going to ask a question about online dating and politics. I dont think I could date a liberal, maybe a democrat, but not a liberal. by the way, are you gay, or are you talking about you swiping on girls?

[JesseTheMan]

Talking about girls

[Definitely]

Ah, the dating games... So much theory behind it and so many rules to it just to play a simple game.
I'm wondering what it's like when it would be about something serious

[Sharknado88]

Before I deleted my Tinder account I can say with certainty that I didn't have any of these things in my profile yet I still didn't get many matches and never went on any dates. In fact all the women on there seemed genuinely uninterested in me despite having my best pictures and a solid bio (had multiple friends and my sister say my profile was great). Hence why it's deleted now

[coachTanthony]

You probably played around on the free versions of the apps and sites? Did you ever upgrade?

[Sharknado88]

Yep I had the upgrade for 6 months and bought a lot of boosts and still nothing. Probably paid around $200 in the app

[coachTanthony]

Was this Tinder?

[Sharknado88]

Yep this scenario that I mentioned was on Tinder but the same thing happened to me on Bumble, OK Cupid, eHarmony, POF, Match, and Hinge. I paid for the upgrades all of the apps and made profiles the same yet different and nothing came out of them. All but my Bumble account arr deleted and that one I have deactivated at the moment, real close to deleting it too. I don't even want to know I how much I spent combined on all these apps

[coachTanthony]

Something doesn't add up! Without blaming the apps what do you think the problem was? Boosts never work and are terrible but the Beeline on bumble is my go too. My clients once their photos are taken by a professional photographer (you can get some for 99 bucks ) and their bio is cleaned up they are rocking it. So kind of at lost for words here.

[Sharknado88]

Me and my friends and siblings were perplexed by this too but I think it might have been that I don't drink, smoke, or do any drugs that may have done me in (especially the drinking part as most girls like going to a bar and getting a glass of wine, I think). I also said I wasn't religious which could have had an effect too. I also have sort of unusual interests that I put on display in my photos and bio that most girls probably aren't into. Other than that I'm honestly not sure

[coachTanthony]

My question would be why didn't you change some stuff up? If my clients are not getting any hits in a week we redo things week after week until they do. It's a fine dance of getting it right but when you do omg... it's like kids in candy stores.

[Sharknado88]

I definitely changed things in my profiles my man. I changed out pictures and tweaked my bio every so often and there was a time I completely overhauled my Tinder and Bumble profiles with new photos fresh bios. But toward the end of my subscriptions I gave up and didn't change anything and deleted it when it ended

[coachTanthony]

I guess it just didn't work for ya! Sorry to hear that! Best of luck to you.

[Sharknado88]

Yeah that's the conclusion I've come to but I've come to terms with it. Thank you for trying to help though I do appreciate it!

[skyylaar]

Yeah just go out and meet girls, tinder girls r stuckup and hella picky cause they have so much choice, + there’s more dudes on there than them

[Anonymous]

Women just don't swipe right ever I think!

I used to read profiles, and only swipe right if I was genuinely interested, now I'm doing an experiment to see if I get ANY matches at all and swiping right on everyone, interested or not. Been doing this for some time, still no matches lol. Or I'm the ugliest guy on the planet? Maybe I am?

And you should see women's profiles! I find it hilarious that women "expect" things in guy's profiles, but they themselves don't do them. I'm just commenting in general with a lot of women, not all I know and not referring to your post specifically, just in general I mean.

[Opinion Owner]

Things I hate, some the same as you that women also do...
- no photos of just them (so common)
- doctored photos with bunny ears and/or whiskers (are you 5 years old?)

There are more, but the first 2 major ones I see with almost every profile. Of your pics, I think you're being a little too picky (judging to much) on 1, 5 & 8. I know myself, I hate getting my photo taken (a lot of guys are like this) and therefore, have very few photos in general of myself. And even fewer of those that I want to post publicly online for the world to see! What's wrong with 1 nice photo? These seems like silly reasons to completely dismiss a person in my opinion. 8) while I understand what you're saying, you're also jumping to conclusions and judging him again when you don't know him at all. This also kind of ties in with 1). Hate getting my pic taken, so they all are going to kind of look the same. 5) don't really understand this thought process, but judging again.

[Opinion Owner]

* of your picks lol

[sasukeuchiha7]

I agree with the last one for a slightly different reason. If a man goes to the gym and takes selfies all the while, he doesn't deserve to be in their. Occasional pictures in the gym is okay to measure your progress. Nothing more.

[sasukeuchiha7]

Although the rest of this stuff kind makes things difficult for me. I hate having my photos taken taken so rarely have any of myself. I'm always the person clicking photos.

[myTake Owner]

One or two pics in the gym are totally fine, but if all his pics are like that - then no thanks. And for you, well if you want to score a date, you will have to make some effort with pics. I hate that some people think that online dating is easy-peasy, that you just have to make an account, put a random pic and that's it. Lol, it requires as much dedication, time and effort as in real life.

[sasukeuchiha7]

I don't really believe in online dating. I'm a bit old fashioned, I prefer actual meetings.

[myTake Owner]

Well every online match should lead to meeting in person. I don't waste time, I chat few times with them maybe and then I ask to meet. There is no point in chatting/texting with someone I don't know in person. Dating apps just make it easier to find someone to meet up with then it is in real life. But yeah, I prefer real life approaching as well, but it never happens.

[sasukeuchiha7]

Yeah true, real life meetings are harder. I've never tried dating apps. Maybe I'll give it a look after college.
Also quick doubt, if all the good pictures you have of yourself bare mostly wearing anime shirts, is that a problem?

[myTake Owner]

Hahaha no that's awesome! At least for me. But some girls might not like it.

[sasukeuchiha7]

😅 thanks.

[faithie_Artist]

For me, anyone that sticks their tongue out and tries too hard to be “sexy”. Like when guys cock there head to the side and rest their chin on between their index finger and thumb, and lick their lips. It’s equivalent to girls doing the turn off duck lips

[oddwaffle]

See this gentlemen? This is a perfect example of the 3 holy crowns for us men: Looks, Money and Smarts, pick 2.

She likes looks and money.

Totally accurate in a raw sense. Because once you strip down the social part, you are left with raw desire.

[btbc92]

I'm not on online dating but I have to say that while, yes many of us do not what to see that, it's good that they don't hide it because it allows you to weed out types of people you don't want.

[Xavixk]

Agree with every point... Except number 10 unless if what you mean is the absence of all three...
Like I don't think lack of occupation is a bad thing.
Kind of makes me think (Why does that matter)

And also as a male tinder user...
This list could be done very much in some way for women...
Except maybe 2 and 5...

[Kkaos]

I agree with your view on most of those points. I don't feel the same way about bios personally, though. A picture tells a thousand words and I'd far rather tell people about myself through pictures than write up random random words. It also leaves more room for questions in conversation later on too.

Also personally speaking as a guy, I've never been turned off by a girl who didn't have a bio, however I've been turned off many times by the crap some girls put in their bios.