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Try not to choose which of these two look better in these pictures but rather answer in general terms

So which type of guy do you prefere? I have heard that women dont mind whether a guy is easy and cheap or not. I personally prefere only virgin guys with self control and i often tested the guys by asking them wheter they want to have sex with me on the first date or not and when they say yes, i never ever talk to them again and so that is how my all girl friends find their husbands who ain't a male cunt.

I'm in love, no need to sugar coat it. It's unrequited (to the best of my knowledge) and it's so hard. It's not the first time this has happened.. I liked a guy for five years that I didn't know well. We were close as kids but I liked the idea of him rather than truly him because I didn't truly know him as we grew older and apart. I moved on, and it took confirmation of nothing ever happening, but it did eventually pass. I now like this other guy and at the beginning I was so aware of everything so I decided to approach every step of this as prayerfully and as honestly as possible. I want to Glorify God with everything I do, and although marriage and that guy seem like a shiny jewel, it's nothing compared to the love I have for God. That doesn't make this painless though. He's in my Bible study group, I see him at church, I serve in kids programs alongside him, and any time I'm hanging with my friend group, he's there. I can't ignore him. I don't want to either, because I know that God is in charge and that he will resolve my feelings and my circumstances. I know that we go through trials in life that grow our faith, and I know I must choose one or the other, but I guess due to a lot of circumstances (which I don't have time or space to get into), right now is just a very difficult and pressing time for me in life. I like him for the right reasons, but I feel so heartbroken and heavy around him. And as I mentioned before, that's very often. I'm considering leaving my group, which would be so hard because it's like family to me, but I don't know what trial would bring God more glory. Leaving and trusting him through the pain in that, or staying and continuing to feel heartbroken and unable to say/do anything. I know that God is ultimately good and I'm so excited to see His plans for me, but right now I feel like I have to make an active choice in either staying or leaving for another group even if both choices are equally difficult for different reasons. Any advice?

Long story
Female, 24. My ex and I broke up in May 2020, and we were no contact. I met a guy that I fell for hard, online, 6 months after my break up (Nov. 2020, we spent the whole month together), he is a chef that fell out of work due to COVID and decided to buy an RV to travel and discover a new life, with a goal of moving towards the west coast. We were instant friends, and the sex... was absolutely incredible. He did things to me I don't think will ever happen again. We started dreaming together of trying to make changes in our grueling society and try to bring some positivity. I decided to drop everything and joined him in January (he left in early December to start his trip).
Well... turns out he has a drug problem. At first I thought it was recreational, and I was fine with it, but very quickly it was clear he was a fiend. After a week from hell, I ditched him and got back in contact with my ex. I could have gone back to my family, but for some reason I called my ex (turns out the same day he had called his ex because he was lonely, and he chose me over her) and we decided to go on a week vacation to his summer house to see where we were at.
I feel better with the other guy, on many different levels, but my ex offers stability and if we don't work out I can move on and build my life. The other guy is working on becoming sober and is showing me proof, and when I left him, he had a break down and confessed he was falling in love with me, well, that he loved me. I miss him but I am scared to try again. I can set myself up with a little emergency money and bail to my family if I needed, but that's a hard road. If there hadn't been a drug problem, I would still be with the other guy. He pushed my boundaries and excited new ways to live life in me that felt right. It's easy with my ex, but almost bland, and he has a dog (I hate dogs, nice to them, but hate them). Who should I be with, if either?

Girls, feel free to answer too. 😂