Search Results: confidence or insecurity

Issues could be insecurity, low confidence/self-esteem, daddy issues, need for validation...

P. S.: I neither agree or disagree. State your opinions.

Just going to get right to it, I'm not attractive. I have acne, and a pretty good amount of it. Nothing the dermatologist throws at me works. I'm skinny, I workout, but I barely see any improvment. It's very hard for me to gain muscle. Im short, that's it. I also have orange-gold hair, and I occasionally get made fun of for being a ginger. Basically, I got fucked by genetics and puberty. So, the reason I'm telling you all my insecurities, is because it's really affecting my mental health. I'm a senior in highschool and I know I'm young but I'm so desperate for a girlfriend or at least a girl to like me. My confidence is super low also, I feel like people only look at my acne and that's how I'm defined, that kid with a lot of acne. The past 4 years have been hell for me, and I've been so lonely the past 2 years. I've suggested lowering my standards a bit, but it's not like I can like someone I'm not attracted to. Over the summer I worked with the most beautiful girl ever and surprisingly I got a date with her at the the end of the summer, after a few dates, she called it off and wanted to stay friends. I accepted her decision of course, but it hurt me a lot and is still hurting me. I kinda got off topic but do girls really care about those things?

I've lost over 170 lbs and although my confidence is a lot higher I find myself not escalating with girls that are interested in me because of my deep insecurity about my skin. My question is to the girls on the site, would you date a guy with loose skin? I've only been with one woman since I've lost weight and she seemed sorta disappointed.