How much attractiveness is added by confidence and unattractiveness by insecurity?

[Anonymous]

Indifferent

Little bit

Some

A lot

Extremely a lot

[RationalLioness]

That's determined by the individual. A lot of women on here stated that they prefer the shy guys who lack confidence to approach them. I'm not one of those women. If you don't approach me, you're either not attracted, too shy, in a relationship, didn't notice etc So I'm not looking at you either. This means that any insecurity shown by men that I deem to be---for lack of a better word "unworthy" of the kind of men that I like---makes the guy instantly unattractive and there is nothing that he can do to help it.

This includes lacking the confidence to walk up to someone and say Hello... especially if I'm looking your way. Or having your wingman do your dirty work.

[spuitkaas]

A lot of really attractive people are insecure. I don't think there's much difference between unattractive or attractive. Attractive people also have their problems.

[HighlanderTheOne]

I think that's bullshit. I'm open minded, I give compliments, willing to learn from people, admit mistakes, laugh at myself but I'm insecure. All the other things have absolutely NOTHING to do with confidence or insecurity. Makes decisions quickly, that's intelligence, learning and growing-intelligence etc. Therefore that's bs.

[cjmtherfcker]

I think it is a huge deal for women in regards to picking men. I don't think men care much unless the lack of confidence causes trust issues, or clinginess

[Mysterio421]

Funny how most guys voted some and most girls voted a lot. I think that the image is not accurate. You can have traits from both sides.

[Aeliuz]

I have pretty low self-esteem and am pretty insecure. But almost none of the things on the insecure side is accurate about me.

[Anonymous]

Well when the list is THAT polarized... EXTREMELY a lot more attractive, lol

[Anonymous]

i have characteristics from both categories. what that makes me? a hybrid? a freak of nature?

[The_Advisor]

Whoever made that picture doesn't know about introversion. Being not condfident is a minor problem for being in a relanship with me.

[annoyymouse]

Really insecure people can be a major turn off