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Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who tries hard to get your affection then a little while after they do they go cold? Then blame it on you when you express that your feeling hurt by certain recent behavior?

They work ore hard to get your affection then leave you high and dry with nothing in return.

My friend's in love with a kind of weird guy and he only says nice things when he's drunk and she gets really frustrated and thinks he's playing with her. They're not in a relationship but they've been talking and making out for a while. No sex.

I don't know how I feel about this because in my case, I always mean it when I talk about my feeling when I'm drunk and I don't do it much when I'm sober (unless I'm REAAAAAAAAAAALLY in love) because it's hard for me to express how I feel so I think maybe the guy is like me and actually means it? but she could be right and maybe he's just an idiot. I've never met him so I don't know how his personality is...

What do you think? I need a distraction because I'm not feeling well so please, don't just click on the poll lol I wanna hear your reasons.

Okay, so I have two friends. Let's call them Hanna and Rachel. And both of them are Christians.

Hanna is open-minded about love. Rachel only believes in the love between man and woman.

Hanna and Rachel has been friends for a long while. Hanna started to have feelings for Rachel. Hanna tells Rachel about these feelings. Rachel puts it in the back burner, and continously sees guys and such behind or in front of Hanna. Hanna feels like either Rachel forgot about how Hanna feels, so she brings it up again firmly. Rachel confirms that she knew, but "forgot" about it. Hanna wants a relationship with Rachel, but she knows that it will never happen. Rachel continuiously flirt with guys within Hanna's sights or used her to get to a guy; whether she and this guy would kiss physcially right behind Hanna's back. Legit, just a few feets behind. Hanna has expressed her anger about this situation numerous times, but it doesn't seem to have any effect on Rachel. When Hanna asked Rachel what she thought and that she wanted closure to help her move on, Rachel refused to let her not even a slight bit. Hanna continues to feel hurt, and it seems like Rachel doesn't care.

What are your take on this? I don't think Rachel is a good friend, but Hanna doesn't want to face that reality and continues to believe on the friendship. And if I may add, Hanna used to have depression. I don't know if she still has it, but I don't need Rachel to turn Hanna for the worst. And Hanna claims that Rachel is her best friend, but Rachel is ALWAYS hiding shit from her. Rachel has used me to send sexy pics to guys, or has used guys, etc. Hanna doesn't know this. I do feel that Hanna is a bit clingy, and that she needs to stop feeling so sensitive about other people, but she has never put her feelings first.