Men and Women should be equal in a relationship? My thoughts on this video!

[ArchDruidMordred]

Le Video:

My thoughts:

Manipulation: Maybe I'm just an overly feminine guy with a weak ass personality and all that, but all this talk of using punishment and rewards to get these girls to do what I want sounds a lot like traning an animal. I believe that, while a man should lead his woman, a relationship shouldn't be THAT conditional. They're kind of making it sound like a relationship should be like a contract. I kind of agree with what they're saying but the way they put it just doesn't sit right with me. It's like they're giving out a guide for how to make your dog do what you say. The thing is that a woman is not a dog, she's a person. Which leads me to my next thought..

Equality: This video claims that men and women should be equal in a relationship, yet says that there should be no compromise or negotiation. Once again, a man should lead his woman but he should still take her feelings and opinions into account. The whole point they're trying to make with this seems very counterproductive to me. Keeping your ground completely with no flexibility and all force only serves to lower the woman's worth. Plus look at the examples they gave: doing the dishes (showing a HUGE pile), folding the socks, picking up the kids etc. Now, this would be all well and good if the video wasn't telling men to go about FORCING their women to do all this. I just can't see a healthy relationship coming off all of that. If she refuses.. well.. that brings me to my next point....

Punishment: Take a good look at the beginning of the video. That part of the video that shows what the narrator calles "pussy whipped men." In that part you will see a few clips of people saying to never hit a woman. Later in the video you see several clips of men getting violent with other people. Is it just me or is this video supporting the idea of forcing a woman to do what you want using literal force? The only times that you can ever hit a woman is either if she is trying to hurt you or if she's kinky and she's into that stuff. Punishing a woman by beating her is going too far. At the same time you'll see a clip of a guy calling a girl a cunt and threatening her. If you need to call a woman a cunt and threaten her to shut her up, then don't go out with that woman. Once again that's not healthy and it doesn't do anything to make her your equal at all. Can you express that you don't like her attittude? Yes. But what this video is telling you to do is just disrespectful.

[Hannah591]

"all this talk of using punishment and rewards to get these girls to do what I want sounds a lot like training an animal." Totally agree and that doesn't mean you're weak or overly feminine, it means you respect women and treat them like human beings.
Unfortunately, there are still men who treat us like slaves and still believe we're below them.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Meh, just another typical "how to pick up women" video which I'm sure will work for some women and won't for others. As long as it's consensual between all partners in the relationships and they're all happy, who cares how the dynamics work?
Not sure if you wanted opinions on your take but whatever, I offered mine regardless.

[ArchDruidMordred]

I did want opinions. So thank you.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Thats how everyone should look at it honestly. As long as no one is being forced into the relationship and kids under 18 are only dating other kids under 18 who honestly gives a shit. People should just focus on what they want to do and mind their business so that other people can do what they want to do. Go @gaymarriage, @planned parenthood and @income equality.