I Don't Hate Men, I Just Want Women to Be Equal to Them

[BoraNicol]

I'm a feminist.

But that doesn't mean that I hate the opposite gender.

I just want women to:

Be paid the same as a men.

For example: A woman works in the same place, the same hours, and the same job as a man and her salary is smaller than the man's salary. In my opinion, that's not fair, is it?

Have the same political rights as a man.

Angela Merkel.Is a woman. She's a president and she's a woman. A women can be a president too. We have the same rights.To say: "I won't vote for X because she's a woman" That's just misogyny.

Not be slut shamed if we sleep with different men.

To say to a man that he's cool or macho etc. when he sleeps with different women is okay but to say that a women is a slut because she's sleeping with different men, that's not fair. We have the same rights as men. We can sleep with however many different men we want.

We can use whatever protection we want. If a man doesn't want to use protection then...no sex. For example: if you don't want to use pills then the woman should talk about that with the partner. The partner of the opposite gender shouldn't choose without the permission of their partner.

And one last thing: A feminist is not saying that you're raping her when you're touching her shoulder. Bad joke.

Rape is something serious. It can damage the mental and the physical part of you. It's not the victims fault. She or he is not asking for that. You can choose whatever you want to wear. You can go naked on the street and that person still doesn't have the right to touch you. It doesn't matter if you're sober or absolutely drunk, you can be dressed in sweatpants and a big hoodie and to be raped. And it's not your fault.

The school schould teach the guys or even girls (who knows?) that it's not ok to abuse someone, not to teach girls or even boys (again,who knows?) how to prevent a rape case.

That's just my opinion and sorry for the spelling mistakes, I just wanted to say this.

[OlderAndWiser]

"You can go naked on the street and that person still doesn't have the right to touch you." True, but. . . walking naked down the street makes it more likely that you will be assaulted so it is a stupid thing to do. You must take some personal responsibility for your own actions. Holding women responsible for walking naked down the street does NOT mean that we do not hold the rapist responsible.

If someone breaks into your house and steals things, they are responsible for committing a crime. But you lock your doors when you leave, right? You want to at least discourage anyone from walking into the house and taking your stuff.

[Cccgala]

Why say, "I just want women to be equal to them", when you'd also say, "We have the same rights as men"? Isn't this cognitive dissonance?

[madhatters4]

i just want to respond because you are getting a lot of heat for the "wage gap" issue posted

most people seem to disregard that you may not be from america or some other place where the wage gaps that exist do so for non-sexist reasons.

i don't specifically about Romania but i wouldn't doubt a sexist base wage gap exists. unfortunately it seems most people disregard your specific living situation

[Malik00]

Allow me to discredit all of these one by one
1. The main reason this so called "Wage Gap" Exists is generally because of more dangerous jobs. When was the last time you seen a woman do construction work, or a truck driver or a firefighter or anything that holds a significant amount of risk to their lives?

That's where the wage gap comes from, the majority of women not wanting to do risky work. They would much rather do desk jobs or any sort of menial work at least over something like that

2. I honestly don't give a rats ass what's between your legs, if i don't think you're qualified for the job I won't vote for you end of story, anyone that pulls the "You didn't vote for her because she's a woman" Card is a total coward that isn't even worth listening to. What am i suppose to favor you BECAUSE you're a woman? That's not equality, that's having the roles reversed to fit you.

3. This is more the situation as to why a woman sleeps around. Now if you're sleeping around because you genuinely enjoy sex and you enjoy the people you have sex with, then fine whatever. You're a nymph and you just love sex and I can respect that. But there are 2 things to keep in mind.

1. Good luck convincing someone you want a serious long term relationship
and
2. You would basically revoke any rights to complaining about anyone you commit yourself to sleeping around, besides how can you assure him that you're not doing the same thing? as far as he knows you could just be another cock to you.

Which brings me to my other point. It's one thing if you are a slut... it's another thing if your are a manipulative whore. The type that sleeps around for money, favors and prestige, the kind that loves twirling men on their little fingers just to get what she wants. Am I really suppose to respect a woman like that?

And finally the whole rape thing... your argument has 2 big flaws. For one its true that people have no right to tell you wear in public, that being said.
Women walking around in public in skimpy clothing is the equivalent of a well off man flaunting his money around, and both are about as smart as jumping in shark filled waters with fresh bloody cuts. You should know EXACTLY what could happen to you.
Not to mention so many women just love to cry rape either as payback or to get attention, how can anyone take any rape charges seriously?

You're argument is filled with more holes then Swiss cheese, and is under the assumption that women aren't in the wrong at all.

[GoWebGo]

Bro...

You are correct!

[Vacuum-Rats]

On point number 2: Hillary Clinton was going to make abortions past 6 months pregnancy possible. That's already making abortions easier than it already is. Can we call women who voted for her as sexist too for not voting for a man?

[404filenotfound]

For the first one, the wage gap is an absolute fallacy. You being a woman isn't going to keep you from making money. What is going to keep you from making money is your choices.
Men are generally more committed to their jobs than women, so men that work "full time" still tend to put in more hours than women that work "full time". Men, on average, take less time off from work as well which, again, impacts their overall hours worked and wages earned. Discrimination, unless it's favor of a woman or minority, in the workplace is, and has been, illegal. And if you wanted to talk about wage gaps, we could talk about the fact that women in cities are earning more than their male counterparts that have the same qualifications.

As far as political rights go, you do have the same rights as men. The fact that people are still going to be sexist doesn't mean that you don't. And that's always going to be the case: just like there are a small minority of women that hate men, there are a small minority of men that hate women. It doesn't make women oppressed and it doesn't take away their rights, it's just how the world works. Like there'll always be rapists, murderers, child pornagraphers, pedophiles and racists, there'll always be people that hate the opposite sex as well. Short of being in absolute control of people, there's nothing that you can do about it so worrying about it is just a waste of time.

Regarding "slut shaming", again, many of the things that on the issue of political rights are going to apply here and I'm going to attempt to expand on both of them as well. Just as with the racists and the sexist people, we have a right to free speech. As long as they're not infringing upon your rights, they can say whatever they want to say and there's nothing that you can really do about it short of taking away their rights, which isn't constitutional.

And finally, regarding rape. That's not even a fight at this point, everyone knows it's bad, everyone hates it. We have demonized rape and rapists to the extent that an unfounded rape allegation could absolutely ruin a man's life. Even if he's found innocent, it's still on his record and he's still a registered sex offender. Just because someone LIED about being raped. You're right, rape isn't a joke, and neither is having your life ruined by a false rape allegation.

[madhatters4]

she lives in romania... according to her profile so the issues there may be different than those in america. in the US the wage gap exists but for good and merited reasons. in romania, I don't know but i wouldn't doubt that it exists there for more sexist reasons

[Vacuum-Rats]

On point number 2: Hillary Clinton was going to make abortions past 6 months pregnancy possible. That's already making abortions easier than it already is. Can we call women who voted for her as sexist too for not voting for a man?

[Vacuum-Rats]

oops. wrong person.

[404filenotfound]

@madhatters4 thanks for pointing that out, man! That was totally my bad.

[Frosteh]

There is no discernible wage gap, this has been dismissed by economists for decades and is a myth perpetuated at this point, only by feminists.

There are many factors that contribute towards pay, more so than the same place, the same hours, the same job. There's your productivity per hour to consider, the likelihood of you taking leave for illness, the likelihood you'll stay late to finish important work, the likelihood you'll work unfavorable hours, the likelihood you'll work in dangerous conditions.

It's already well established that women have more rights in places like the US and the UK than men, there's a greater number of laws that enable freedoms for women and deny them for men. For example it's illegal to practice female circumcision, but it's legal to practice male circumcision.

Being slut shamed isn't stopping you from sleeping with whoever you want, that's a lie. The reason men are called studs and women are called sluts is because the difficulty in sleeping with a lot of women is high, they're generally less promiscuous than men so are more reserved about sex. Where as sleeping with a lot of men is easy. As Jim Jefferies put it - there's fat sluts but there's no fat studs.

The idea that men and women are exactly equal is an ideological belief and not one that actually exists in reality, it's simply not observably true. Men and women are different, men have testosterone that make us more sexually aggressive and desire a greater amount of sex, women have the risk of pregnancy which makes them generally more reserved.

Rape is an awful thing that no reasonable person condones, but it's NOT lack of education that leads to rape, it's predatory behaviour caused by being the victim of abuse. Almost all serial rapists were sexually abused as children and many of them by women at a young age. If you seriously and genuinely want less rape then asking people to be educated isn't going to help - however holding people accountable for the abuse of kids and that includes women, is a massive step in the right direction.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well you do hate men because you can't believe all men are oppressing all women (or most anyway) and not think poorly of men. You have to look down on men to have that world view. Further more I would ask, what rights do men have that women don't? Their are many rights that women have that men dont' but I can't find a single one that men have and women do not. As for the wage gap, its a myth that has been debunked so many times I honestly don't understand why people keep mentioning it. If it existes it exists to the benefit of women because single women and make more then their single male counter parts and they make more in female dominated fields while making as much if not more then their male counter parts in male dominated fields, like STEM fields where their are few women in those fields but companies still have to meet female hiring quotas (a right women have that men don't hence no male highering quotas in any female dominated field) thus making these companies fight over the few women in the fields even though they are statistically going to be less likely to persue a higher degree and work fewer hours then the male counter parts, and thus have to increase the starting wages to lure women into their companies just so they can not get punished by the government. You absolutely have the same political rights as men, that's just stupid beyond belief. No one has stopped a woman from entering politics, if you want a female president then have more women run for office, as it stands the US has only had about five women who ran, two of which where in the 1800s. Also few , if any, have stated they would not vote for a woman, hence Hillary Clinton running for office and gaining the votes she did despite how horrible a candidate she was (she literally broke the law). In fact surveys showed that people would be more likely to vote for a candidate simply because they where a woman so again, that's simply not true, your lying/making up a problem that doesn't exist. No, men are not cool or macho for sleeping around. At best people are indifferent. Also every person has the right to judge a person based upon their actions, just like some women find a man who sleeps around disgusting (hence the terms philanderer, fuckboy, player etc.) so do men, your not the only one's allowed to have an opinion (especially considering that men have a biological interest in not being with promiscuis women (paternity)). As for rape, the diluting of the term is due to feminist.

[Phoenix98]

Women in the eyes of the law are already equal to men they in fact have been since 1972 but that is as far as it will go.

In regards to women being the same as men biologically and physically, even mentally and being able to do anything a man can that's bull crap and is not true nor does it have any scientific basis. Men and women are fundamentally different. And will never be equal or the same in terms of physical superiority or mental capacity.

Both sexes have their own strengths and weaknesses but they are not equal or the same.

1# Be paid the same as a men.

Women do receive equal pay to men for the same hours and same work. In case you were not aware it is actually illegal to pay women less then men for the same work and hours simply because they're a woman.

And if hiring women was cheaper and companies could get away with paying women less then men then every company in the United States would be firing men and hiring nothing but women because they'd be a cheaper labor and work force. Which would mean more money saved and made.

2# Have the same political rights as a man.

Women do have the same political rights as men do, women just in general are not interested in politics as life long field of interest that's why there are not many to begin with. Also if a country doesn't want a woman as a leader it's not misogyny, it's because she as a individual is not fit to lead the country.

That's why we didn't elect Hillary as president, not because she was a woman but she because she was and is a despicable and evil human being with a long list of crimes that would have landed anyone else but her in prison for life.

FYI Angela Merkel is a horrible president and a lot of Germans actually don't like her.

3# Not be slut shamed if we sleep with different men.

Most people shame or support both sides of being sluts when it comes to sleeping around, despite contrary beliefs men are not celebrated for sleeping around and women shamed.

Most of the time either someone supports both doing it or shames both for doing it.

Now I don't know how things are Romania but please don't advocate for modern feminism that bullshit will get you nowhere if women genuinely don't have equal rights where you are then I suggest you adopt generation 1 feminism. It's the only phase of feminism that actually fought for legal equality and women rights and wasn't downright wicked/evil.

[Phoenix98]

Also in regards to what I said above I was referring to how things are in the US and most modern and up to date nations.

So keep in mind I know your not from the US and that I was stating how it is in most free or equal nations.

Covering my bases basically.

[Kkaos]

Very true, but with the 3#, I think there's more to it based on how sex works with genders. For example, going back to before we had protection, a man could have sex with unlimited amounts of women whereas a woman couldn't. Becoming pregnant over and over again would put a big toll on her body and therefore put her health at risk, hence lowering her status as a sexual partner. Whereas a man who managed to get many women to have sex with him was viewed as more attractive because obviously something was good about him to make all the others want it.

It's a known fact that it's much easier for women to get sex than it is for men, therefore it's not really an achievement if a woman has a lot of sex, whereas it can be for a man.

It's like how a man being a virgin is often considered as a negative in dating, whereas a woman being a virgin can be a positive.

I do think things are changing towards what you described now, but traditionally there has been a double standard.

[Phoenix98]

@Kkaos I would argue the opposite in regards to the birth and affect on the body, even 80 years ago it was incredibly common for families to have 7-10 kids and the women all lived long healthy lives for the most part.

But back in our more ancient days men ad women generally got together for the purpose of procreation.

Of course in regards to 3# I was strictly talking about in today's world not in the past, as that's a whole different thing altogether.

[Anonymous]

As a woman, I've never felt that I was unequal to men nor did my mom, sister, female friends and family. We don't follow feminism, but I've notice only women who identity as feminist see themselves as unequal to men.
The wage gap is calculated on the average earnings of men and women so if guys work at higher paying jobs its obvious that they would be paid more (on average) and that isn't discrimination. That is differences in career paths which is on women and not men. If you wanna earn more, go into fields that pay more, it's that plain and simple. Currently I earn more than most of my male coworkers because I out perform them (commission on sales) so I'll actually lose out if I were to be paid the same as them.

As for slut shame. It goes both ways. A lot of women call men fuck boys for sleeping around , and many women won't date a guy with a high number. So sometimes you have to take a step back and look at the whole picture and not just from a narrow or feminist lens which is bias.

[Opinion Owner]

As for rape, we all know its bad and rapist know what they are doing is wrong. So teaching people that rape/abuse is wrong isn't going to stop people from committing these crimes.

We all have to be aware that our safety is our responsibility. That is why we look our homes, cars , take self defense classes because there are evil people out in this world. Obviously, we can't always protect ourselves, but we have to try and reduce the risks we take when it comes to our safety. I never get drunk in public because I do fear getting raped as well as getting robbed, hurting myself , drunk driving and doing something that might hurt and damage someone which may lead to serious repercussions. So we have to be realistic and live in the real world and not a fairy tale.

[mamamai]

Agreed, and now that HR is an available resource to report any men (or women to be fair) who try to use their authority for sex, I would say we are pretty, equal. Slut shaming I think is someones opinion. if you want to sleep around and someone says you're a slut just either stand up for yourself or better yet ignore, because you know what you are and labels don't matter.

[metalsucks2]

@Opinion Owner
You think only men rape and that is sexist.

Have you not seen the epidemic of female teachers raping their students? And yes an adult having "sex" with a minor is rape.

Why not teach women to not prey on young boys and find men their own age?

[Opinion Owner]

@metalsucks2 where did i say "men"?

[metalsucks2]

You said boys must be taught to no rape.

[Anonymous]

"A woman works in the same place, the same hours, and the same job as a man and her salary is smaller than the man's salary."

Please provide an example of this. A REAL one. You won't find one because it doesn't happen. IT'S ILLEGAL, and has been for a very long time. There are laws against it and Human Resources departments to make damn sure it doesn't happen. If id dose happen, legal action is taken.

The "wage gap" is the average earnings of all women versus all men, NOT the difference between men and women with the same qualifications in the same jobs.

The wage gap is a result of the very different life choices men and women make. Men and women choose to study different things, and that affects their earnings. Women work fewer hours than men in the same jobs (that's in indisputable fact), which affects their earnings. Women remove themselves from the labor pool for extended periods of time, which affects their resume and thus their earnings. Unlike men, women prioritize things like flexible work schedule and comfortable work environment ahead of salary, which naturally affects their earnings. Women gravitate toward more touchy-feely careers like nursing, psychology and social work because they have that luxury, while men, because their value is still mostly measured by their ability to earn money, are forced to choose more lucrative careers like engineering and finance.

So please, stop the spread of this feminist lie. It's one of the biggest reasons men are fed up with feminism. Men are sick and tired of the dishonesty and ignorance of feminists like you. THAT is why we hate feminism.

And yes, feminism IS making a complete joke of rape by twisting its definition to make men the only ones who are responsible for their actions. Feminism is trying to remove ALL responsibility from women for their choices and actions. Claiming otherwise is pure dishonest bullshit, and another reason men are fed up with feminism. Teaching that crap will NEVER be acceptable, and feminism will NEVER be respected while they try to push such nonsense.

Dishonesty and gynocentric bias are the hallmarks of modern feminism, and you are just another example of that. As long as that is the case men will never accept or respect feminists.

[Chief16]

By our very being men and women are different. Heck no two men or women are equal.
1. Wage Gap: lol, different fields pay differently. Its only actresses and rich celebs who induce this foolishness to stay relevant. No serious economist has ever nodded that women are paid less than men.
2. Same Political Rights: you have the right to vote. Don't be stupid, don't vote for someone just because of their gender. People wanted that nutjob Hilary in the white house but they didn't see the massive underlying damage she's done.
3. Sex: its a no brainer because the dynamics are different for men and women if the first place. You all expect the man to approach you, initiate and treat you like nice. Why should I put all that hard work if you're just gonna get it on with some guy for nothing? If you're a swinger, great. That's a different lifestyle entirely and I have a no opinions about that. Serious relationships however... Not gonna happen.
Rape? Description of rape crimes isn't monopolized by feminists. You have the law for that. If you're a guy and walking down thug alley in the middle of the night, you're asking to get mugged. If you're a girl, worse, raped. You want to tame the wild? Go ahead. But even as a guy I would avoid walking down a dark alleyway in a seedy place at night. Its common sense, not victim blaming.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

-Be paid the same as a men.
Can only speak for my country. You are paid the same. If you think they're not, then citation needed, and even if that point is true there's still reasons why that statistic would be true without sexism. But for now I have no reason not the think the pay gap is a myth.

-Have the same political rights as a man.
Obviously you do have the same rights. Problem solved.
Then you decide for no reason to talk about how people vote, which is different from rights. The example you provided might be misogyny, but that has little to no with rights. But misogyny isn't prevalent either, so you both have rights and don't face culture-wide hatred. Problem solved.
But on that note, "I will vote for X because she's a woman" is just as awful and we've seen Hilary play that card and plenty of people buy into it, when they shouldn't.

-Not be slut shamed if we sleep with different men.
You are allowed to sleep with lots of guys, people just won't like you for it. Deal with it. People don't like guys sleeping with loads of women either.
As if men don't get called names as well. God, this is such a retarded thing to believe.

I have no idea what you point about contraception was.

"A feminist is not saying that you're raping her when you're touching her shoulder." I mean, you say that but there's a few prominent feminists out there that will disagree, trust me.

No one believes it's a woman's fault for being raped and all the rest of it. Just stop it. But if it's not rape and she says it is then it is her fault for lying when she gets in trouble with the law, no?

Obviously people don't think it's ok to abuse someone and no one is teaching them that it's ok! Please stop speaking utter nonsense.

Congratulations, your feminism is completely baseless.

[LogicBomber]

1st off wage gap isn't real and has been proven time and time again.
If a woman works the same place, the same hours, and the same job, she DOES get the same pay. But "wage gap" doesn't take those factors into account. It's a broad average of men vs women which comes up short because women don't work as many hours, have more time off, take more leave, have different duties, lighter work loads, etc.

But that aside... So you are also willing to give up the endless amount of privilege you have which men don't in the name of equality? I bet it's very unlikely you will. Feminist never fight about the endless women only groups, clubs, shelters, housing, funding, grants, scholarships, funding, gov assistance, etc.
They never have an issue with the school system that is biased in their favor and treats boys like broken girls, marks girls easier, puts girls needs first, etc.
They never complain about women getting lesser punishment for the same crimes as men.
No mention of giving up half of their parental rights to men who currently have zero.
NO care about the bias in women's favor court system.
ETC ETC.

http://i.imgur.com/Pyvxt11.jpg

You have no need to hate men. You have much more privilege, protection, and help than they do.

[LogicBomber]

When it comes to voting for X because she's a woman. People didn't vote for Hitlery because she was a piece of garbage, not because she was a woman. more women voted for trump than Hilary because smart women knew that she was a hateful evil piece of crap who protected rapists and only used the vagina card as a political bargaining chip.
99% of claimed "misogyny" is fabricated victimhood.
Angela Merkel is a female president and that actually proves that people have no issue voting for women who are good for the job. But if you vote for a person ONLY because they are a woman, you are actually being sexist.

[LogicBomber]

The slut shaming topic is also a false victimhood. More women slut shame women than men do and the only guys who think players are "cool" are other players and the many women who go after those types of men.

Someone calling women a slut for being promiscuous is such a stupid gripe. Men are called pigs, creeps, scum, slime bags, perverts, etc. Just for having a sexual interest in females.
Do we go on a tangent about how "wrong" it is... no. because other peoples opinions don't mean shit. Maybe instead of expecting people to stop being judgmental about lascivious behavior, women could start taking responsibility for their actions and make better choices?

[bang678]

here's a little collection to inform those who claim the pay gap doesn't exist

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www.payscale.com/data-packages/gender-pay-gap

www.pewresearch.org/.../?amp=1

www.aauw.org/.../

www.epi.org/.../

Additionally, while there are laws in place meant to avoid pay gap, many companies punish employees for even comparing their earnings.

[TadCurious]

The "wage gap" (women only earn 70 cents for every dollar men earn) has been debunked over and over by numerous studies. Those studies show that differences in earnings between men and women reflect personal choices made by women to go into careers and lines of work that simply pay less than those favored by men. For example, more women doctors choose to practice in specialties like pediatrics and obstetrics/gynecology that aren't as lucrative as other specialties. But where they do choose the more highly-paid specialties they do earn as much as men.

And you write in your myTake:
"For example: A woman works in the same place, the same hours, and the same job as a man and her salary is smaller than the man's salary. In my opinion, that's not fair, is it?"

It all depends whether or not that's fair. She may have the same job title on paper but she may not produce as much work. She may not be as valuable an employee as the man who earns more. More valuable employees usually get raises.

[HorrorFan]

I don't know how it works in Romania, but here in America, women legally cannot get paid less for the same work and experience level, etc. since the 60's.

Again, my only reference point is America, but women do have the same political rights as men. They can legally run and win just like any man. As shitty as it is, you can't actually stop a person from saying "I don't want to vote for a woman." That would be anti freedom.

It does suck that women get slut shamed, but men get 'virgin' shamed as well as a slew of other societal expectations that he must meet or be deemed "not a real man" Both genders have shitty double standards. You also cannot police how people think.

Schools should teach education. Parents should teach their children right from wrong and other moral boundaries. Let's also not pretend like women aren't as abusive as men. They may not be as much of a threat to punch people or whatever, but from a psychological perspective, they are more than capable of doing serious damage.

You can't always stop bad people from raping just like you can't always stop bad people from murdering. So yes, women absolutely should learn how to better prevent rape situations because all one can do is control their own decisions and actions.

[fhziljio]

Wagegap is a lie and always has been.

If you do not have the same rights a men please tell me which law is the reason, so that we can change that.
Voting for a woman just because she is a woman is sexism aswell.

You can fuck around all you want, but don't expect men to be waiting to marry you.
A man wants you to be his wife and not to be everybodys wife.
Also we enjoy the sluts.

Well yeah people should agree on how to have sex that includes contraception. People usually call that consent.

Feminists try to change the definition of rape, because it is too strict for them, that is how this meme started.
There is a nice clip on youtube, where a female screams rape, because she gets arrested by police officer (who had the patience of an angel with this terrible woman)
A male does something she doesn't like equals rape in her head.

Yeah we in the western world do teach our children not to harm people.
But everyone is in charge of their own safety. You need to understand that there are people out there who not give a shit about anything and you as a grown up need to be able to deal with that.
I as a guy dont like to get robbed, theft is against the law, we teach children not to steal, but there are still robbers and thiefs outthere, that is why we have doors and locks. Bad things can happen you need to prepare yourself.

[oddwaffle]

#1 they are being paid the same when they started out. What changes is there is a divergent at around 30 years old. Women start to get less. Why do you think that is?

Read the actual data and don't just follow the media. Women have the same pay as men do. What they lack is opportunities. Either they don't bargain for it, not confront their bosses for it take more time for family or just simple because of discrimination.

#3 Don't impose your choices over other people choices. This is the one thing I hate the most. If they men don't like women who had multiple partners then they have the right not to like. It's normal. I don't like apples, I have the right not to like apples.

Women have this crazy thing that they think men's preference seem to be wrong and they have to change it. The result is that women wants to dictate what men can like and what they can't. What a lot of women tend to forget, they don't get to dictate the preferences of others.

Lastly, going naked in the street is a crime at some places. Also, because it is a crime to Rob and steal, that doesn't mean you should leave your door open and walk around with stacks of cash in your hands.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Just out of curiosity, where is the "actual data" you speak of? If it's so apparent common media is wrong, why not post specifically where you get your data? I agree with most of the second part of your #2 reason. I don;t agree they have the same pay but I am not sure, yet I do agree there is a lack of opportunity and discrimination. #3 I have huge issues with. Why do men see women that have multiple partners as something not to like, YET absolutely ADORE if they do it? That's a one way street. If men have the right to love themselves for sleeping with multiple women, then why can't they like women who do it to? Isn't this hypocritical? Also, then don't be upset if WOMEN view men that have slept with many people as undesirable as well. AND then they are allowed to be PROUD as men are of sleeping with multiple people.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

My second part of my opinion is that what you are feeling about women is EXACTLY how the feel about men. And men, being always seen as "superior" and "alpha" started the trend of dictating what the other gender should be like. MEN wrote the bible. MEN wrote the laws of the first few centuries. MEN have almost always been in control of everything, If women want some of that control too, can they really be blamed? Last thing, going naked isn't highly suggested. But in the end of the day, even if it is illegal, rape is too, and often MORE so for a reason as it actually PHYSICALLY harms somebody and can leave PHYSICAL EVIDENCE of it as well. Seeing somebody naked in the end of the day is not that big of a deal. It effects what is seen. That's all. No provable harm and absolutely NONE physical. Also, no it's not a good idea to carry around money and leave the door open. But that doesn't excuse stealing. In the end, raping and stealing are higher crimes. That is law.

[oddwaffle]

@errorgoodnameunfound

Check the wikipedia if you want sources. Factor in a lot of things you have 91% wage for women vs men this include unions (bargain power), industries (job choices) and human capital. That leaves the last 9% for opportunities to raise wages.

Job choice alone accounts for over 50% of the wage difference.

Always remember to check your actual sources.

[oddwaffle]

Also, because it is law doesn't mean you should be stupid about it. Leaving your car unlocked is asking to be robbed. Leaving your phone on a public table is asking it to be taken.

Also paragraph. Man tldr your stuff.

[Anpu23]

I understand where you are coming from here. Unfortunately when you take on a title, you also take on the baggage that title has. Feminism, at least the political aspects of feminism, is not about equality, it never has been. When you say that you are a feminist you are saying you support the feminist movement including such political groups as NOW etc. Further to me feminism is defined by the belief in patriarchy theory (https://www. girlsaskguys. com/other/a27260-the-definition-of-feminism-my-proposed-revision) and as a feminist, to me it says that you believe that men are oppressors of women, or at least historically have been. You support such things as the Duluth model of domestic abuse, and the dear colleague letter involving title 9 on campuses. These are loaded political stances. As these are core feminist beliefs. Further it would seem that you support the idea that gender is a social construct, etc.
It's not just equal pay for equal work (that already is the law in most western countries), or the same political rights as men (woman are by far the largest voting block in the US, if you want more women in office, vote for them, run for office, if none are running then none will be elected) etc. etc.

[TheFlak38]

Another 17 year old who was taught at school how feminism rocks and decided to follow it just because it is the mainstream.
Equality is a marxist construct. It's bullshit. There is no equality in nature.
With that being said, I bet you haven't read just one feminist manifesto or the history of feminism at least in a few words. This ideology was created by communist with the only purpose to hate on men.
Communists love to use silencing tactics like screaming "racist" at everything which exactly what you do here. We have women running for presidency and even winning (by the way Merkel is a Chancellor not a President). There it is, your so called equality. Brain-polluted girls like you vote for Hilary and Merkel just because they are women. Wouldn't that be misandry with your illogical arguments? Of course there was another fantastic woman recently running for Presidency. It was Le Pen in France. But you would never vote for her because she represents the interests of the healthy minded French people and this is surely something you despise. You only want the degenerates to govern. People like Merkel, May and Macron who do everything they can to destroy Europe and kill the European people. Needles to say I didn't read your whole article. One that is full of communist feminist bullshit and false information and of course promoted by gag to make it more accessible to the gullible biological ruins who will follow whatever is trendy and socially acceptable.

[Redstang88]

1) Pay gap - BULLSHIT. I don't know how many times that has been proven wrong.
Do people working the exact same job sometimes make different amounts? Sure, I make more than most of my coworkers. Why? Because I went to my boss and demanded a raise. Studies have shown women are less likely to do that, but that's not our problem. If you don't ask you probably won't get it.
2) People should vote for whoever the hell they want to. The most qualified person should get the job.
3) People are going to judge, it is human nature and it will never change. Don't act like guys don't get judged for things too.
4) Yes rape is a serious issue. But false accusations are also a big issue, and it is absolute being used as a tool and a weapon by (some) women.
And in general, its not as much about victim blaming as it is about being smart. I don't leave my truck unlocked in a shitty neighbourhood with the keys in it and my wallet on the dash, that would be plain stupid.
It is about realising that there are people out there that do not care about societies rules, and doing what you can to look after yourself.

[Anonymous]

1) So are you going to complain about the fact women between the ages of 20 and 30 earn more than men of the same age?

2) Right, like all the feminists in the US who were happy Hillary Clinton was running because she's a woman, and only voted for her because of that fact only?

3) So do you also complain when guys of just 13 are being teased for being virgins because it's ok for women to be virgins, but not ok for men?

4) Rape is a big issue, so why so many feminists cry rape when you offend them, or when they regret last night's sex? (Mattress girl, Rolling Stone magazine case, hundreds of videos online...)

5) Do you also complain about the fact more men live in the streets?

6) Do you also complain about the fact almost 50% of domestic violence victims are men, yet there's no shelters for men?

7) Do you also complain about the fact women get a shorter sentence for the same crime committed by a man?

8) Do you also complain about the fact more than 75% of divorces are won by women, despite them being at fault?

9) Do you also complain about the fact men are viewed as potential rapists/pedophiles simply because of being male?

10) Do you also complain about the fact men get constantly sexually assaulted by women, yet it goes unnoticed because apparently it's ok to do that to a man?

How much of equality do you want to fight for men too, and not for women? Or is it more important for women to be able to fuck whoever they want without judgement, than having kids be raised by the best parent, or giving men help when they're abused by their partners?