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I don't know what to believe. I've been with someone going on three years and he moved out of town for work , it is now 7 months later and I look on his Facebook and all of a sudden it says he is in a relationship with some girl. I go off on him , cure him out and tell him it's over and I don't want anything to do with him. He replies that the girl hacked into his Facebook account because he has turned her down and doesn't want her. He constantly calls me baby when I ask him not to and says how much he loves me and that she I trying to ruin him and that he already had plans on moving back to our home town. I'm still pissed off and cursing him out but he keeps saying he hasn't cheated or deal with the girl at all so I messaged her because he clearly had on his page he already was in a relationship so I find that very disrespectful so she never replied to the message. And he still hasn't removed her off his Facebook and all thought he is barely on there it takes nothing but two seconds to remove someone from your relationship status and off your page period. By the way I seen her before comment on his page and he never replied or liked it and I guess if she did hack his page it still seem strange to me because when she kept making comments they were not friends so the day I seen the relationship change his page went from adding her as a friend straight to being in a relationship. Would you believe him or not?

I used to have some feelings for one of my best friends and he felt the same way, but I backed off. He had a girlfriend plus I didn't want to lose the friendship we had - those aren't the reasons why I backed off though. I thought it was, but I realize now that it was more or less because I was afraid that it was turning into something, and I got scared. I'm twenty and I've never been in a real relationship before (real=no boundaries + lasting longer than a year at least), and I got scared that we would actually work out (am I making sense to ya'll?). I guess things were progressing fast between us yet he had a girlfriend, and I felt like I didn't know what I was doing.

I eventually forced myself to give up, and I was successful. However, I've started to have feelings for him again after spending a whole day with him and his family/other friends on his college graduation day (he held an afterparty afterwards). That day, I learnt more about him and about his family, and I realized all I'd been missing out on. During the party, I found myself jealous when other girls would flirt with him and get all excited about our newly single mutual friend. By the end of the day, I realized I'd fallen for him again. I recently said goodbye to a man, so at that time I thought it might just be from the adrenaline from my heartbreak as well as from other things like family issues going on in my life right now - but I still feel the same, so I guess it's not the adrenaline.

That night, I couldn't sleep. A few nights later, I went crazy and told him through Skype (since I'd fled the country for summer break). We tried to arrange a time to meet in person before I left, but couldn't. The result? Bad. He froze for a second, then he told me he no longer has feelings for me and that he's not looking for a relationship right now because he just broke up with the girlfriend I mentioned at the beginning. I shouldn't have told him. Now, he feels awkward and we used to chat