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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
Do They Find Me Attractive Or Are They Drunk?
I work as a bar staff for a nightclub. Lately I have been working in the room where people keep their coats and bags. I get a lot of compliments. People stopping to say I'm beautiful, cute, or they fancy me. Guys and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, why do some guys pursue so actively and then leave and go completely cold?
I was with a guy for only a few months. We met online and built a fantastic connection. When we met in person we continued to hit it off, he asked me to be with him, told me he loved me. 3 months later he says he's not...
Anonymous
(25-29) Will I find love again?
Alright Broke up with my first and only girlfriend about a year ago. Haven’t slept with no one since and haven’t been on any dates. Spoke to one or two girls since but didn’t carry it on as they didn’t meet my standards...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it slutty to ask for guys numbers?
I'm 27 and I have come to the conclusion that I am tired of waiting around for guys to ask me out. I see guys checking me out all the time but they never approach me. So I was thinking just to do it myself. I just have...
Anonymous
(30-35) When I go out girls are very interested and keep making eye contact, but other times they don’t. What does this mean (even if l look the exact same)?
People consider me a good looking guy but I have low confidence and self esteem issues. When I go out with my friends I either get lots of attention from girls or none at all. It’s at the point where girls eyefuck me or...
Anonymous
(25-29) One reason men will not invest in a relationship!
During the course of normal banter back and forth between men and women on GAG (and everywhere else) one recurring theme I see is that women complain "men won't invest in the relationship" . Please note, when I say...
KrakenAttackin
Master Age: 46 What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)
So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 How much longer should give my current job until I start looking elsewhere?
I work in GIS and started with a new company recently. I was called into a meeting with the lead GIS person, manager, and supervisor. Their have been issues on project updates where multiple revisions were needed hurting...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why it’s almost impossible for men and women to be “just friends”
Disclaimer: This myTake will discuss the topic mainly about heterosexuals. Some points discussed such as sexual attraction can apply to people who aren’t heterosexual. Other than that, I can predict that this Take is...
TruthBringer
Yoda Age: 28 Do you have any weird things that motivate you when you feel bad?
Sometimes when I have trouble in life I go to the page of the girl who my ex ghosted me for and watch the video of them on a date. I discovered the video by coincidence a while ago and it broke every last bit of my heart...
Anonymous
(25-29) I don't know what I need to do to improve my dating game? I feel done and defeated. What do I need to do or learn?
Gave a napkin note to a cute girl at a gas station, offering her to text me if she wanted. She's probably taken. All these dating apps have no interesting or quality women, or maybe they just don't want me. I'm tired...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is something you learned about yourself during the pandemic?
For me, it was my ability to adjust to working from home during that difficult time. I also learned that i don't need constant reassurance in doing things well at my job, as i did not have the same contact that i did...
StarryNightLights
Xper 5 Age: 32 It's been 4 months and she's still single, now likes me more and she's still staying with me?
From the past few months I been talking to this girl from a market close to me then around Fourth of July weekend she quit her job and gotten more hours at her restaurant job. When I first met her I didn't know who she...
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 What professional do you call to help you set up and plan your life?
I don’t know if it’s a assistant or a lawyer. But I want someone by my side to support me and deal with the buyers and sellers and protect my interests. Cause if I want a car or a house. I don’t get support from my...
FictionalCharacter
Guru Age: 36 Do you think I am overreacting about the stripper pole?
I started seeing this guy, and we hit it off, and we started seeing each other every day. Then I mentioned that I used to be a stripper 15 years ago but had ignored that part of my life that I loved back then I made good...
gl296
Xper 2 Age: 51 Mental health has ruined my life and I don't know what to do to change it & become happy?
Warning, this will be long. I don't even know where to start but i'm utterly confused and lost in life. I'm not suicidal but I have nothing to really "live for" or anything to make me happy. About a week ago my...
Buckzor
Yoda Age: 28 Mental Health Acuity: It Begins With The Physical (And virginity is not the problem, fellas, it's the symptom)
My dear fellow gaggers, over the recent months, actually close to nearly 2 years now since this whole pandemic thing began, I've found myself forced into some sort of profound journey where I tamed a rather fierce...
InventorofWarp
Xper 7 Age: 29 For Men: How to Fully Control Your Mind
There are three main ways that a female can influence a man: By how she looks. By what she says. By how she behaves. There are others but this is enough for now. Weak men are controlled by women because they have no...
hahahmm
Master Age: 53 The current state of feminism is affecting young women, more than helping them, and here's why,
1. The glamourization of sex work. Now, I personally believe adult women can choose to do sex work if they wish, but glamourizing it is a HUGE issue . Just browsing through Tik Tok, I see loads of underage girls saying...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to be confident enough to accept opportunity?
So I used to be the teachers assistant in high school and I would help grade papers and stuff like that. I graduated a few years ago but one of the boys who I went to high school with became a famous artist. I didn’t know...
Anonymous
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