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I sure am after reading the experiences of many in open relationships, many women have after evolving to a level of a fiance tried to propose a open relationship. I truly see the depths of evil in these people.

Open relationships are also initiated by more women with the husband ending up with mental disorders, mental health problems etc.

I am not a religious fundamentalist but I think I should become one after all I've read about modern women and men, open relationships etc. I would rather live in a religious world than have such a world where love and abuse are the same thing to many people.

Is it true that modern casual dating killed romance? I started to beleive so.
Most people nowadays just have sex while dating and don't wait till marriage. They openly talk about it and ask girls to have sex or whatever.
That kinda killed romance. Back then in the 50s you couldn't speak so openly about that and sex before marriage wasn't that acceptable. Yeah, it was harder back then but added more excitement and romance to it.
Would you rather play a game where you already unlock all guns so you'll get bored after a week or a game where you have to unlock things so you'll play for months?
I kinda wish old dating was still a thing.

I’m from America, but I moved to South America and

I noticed the women are much nicer and humble, so much more prettier.

You also see amazing girls date short skinny guys, guys you would think that they would have no chance.

So I've finally resolved myself to start dating this year, but I feel my views on relationships these days is very pessimistic. Basically I feel that it's completely one-sided on the woman's part, and is little different from the relationship between a master and their servent

For example: If a woman hits a man, She's being strong and is encouraged to do so, if a man hits a woman for any reason even if his life is in danger, he is completely at fault for it.

Some women will cringe at the mere mention of splitting the bill let alone a woman paying for the whole thing, but it's almost expected for a man to foot the entire bill even if he makes less.

If a man cheats on a woman, he is a horrible unfaithful human being. If a woman cheats on a man, it's because the man didn't love her enough and give her enough attention.

If a woman doesn't want sex then pressuring her to do so would be sexual harassment, if a man doesn't want sex there is something fundamentally wrong with him as a person, cause men ALWAYS want sex right?

I could go on but the point im trying to make is this, modern day double standards, make it so how relationships go is entirely dependent on how benevolent the female party is.

So if I genuinely believe that, why bother dating at all? Well 2 reasons.

1. Being fully aware of this reality, means I have the freedom to at least choose who my master is going to be.

And

2. Being someone's subservient boytoy, is still better then spending your life alone provided you get to choose your master as stated above.

So is this an overly cynical view of dating?