Search Results: sick of being the friend

She would like to start from zero at some point but there is an issue. Too much has happened over the years to the point, he has no communication with her other than ''Is she available'' if he were to call my home #, which rarely ever happens.

To briefly summarized, she has treated him like garbage, gossip false things behind his back to her a friend, play drama games on him, directly insulted him on my b-day, then issued him a fake apology long ago (full of excuses... it was an ''I'm sorry IF I hurt you''), continued being a fake person to him for many years (not just 1,2 but over 10 years... even when we broke up at some point and were friends) and then tried to get along with him just so he can take me to Miami, FL and bring her gifts.

Basically he doesn't know the real her at all. All he ever knew was a meddling, antagonistic, fake, person who never liked him.. So now ever since she lost her uncle to cancel, she can't go longer sale clothes, her friend is sick and things aren't going good for her... suddenly she claims the pandemic and everything else made her reflect and think differently about things... that she would want to restablish a friendship with him at some point. Is it too late at this point?

there’s a guy at work that’s my age. I keep seeing him looking at me, almost like he’s looking out for me, but I must admit I’m also looking out for him.

I am very attracted to him he’s very tall as am I, broad, and just seems so kind.

we work in a care home and he’s always overly very kind to the residents when I’m around.

Obviously I like this, but he is very often joshing with me and poking fun at me, for instance: today at work he said I look very pale. I said he was rude as I faked tanned last night (lol) and he said “what just your elbow?” I then looked at my elbow and saw it had an orange patch and I was really disappointed as I did my hole shibang of mortising and scrubbing :(

I called him a rude cunt lol but it was all light banter and continued how I had a friend who was much paler than me who in fact loved being very pale and didn’t like fake tanning.

he just always is trying to spark a convo in some way in a sarcastic “man” kind of way. Like once I was asking for a specific carer as a resident needed help and he told me they went home as they were sick in the staff room!! After staring at home I said “I don’t believe you..” and went to look for them myself, he then shouted my name and said “she’s in robin lounge haha”

It’s not a lot to go on but.. anyway if he does seem in anyway interested I really don’t know how to go about this as rejection is hard, especially in the work place so any help is greatly appreciated