Search Results: too shy to ask him out

Why do I always do this?

So I’m shy and introverted when it comes to meeting new girls. It takes a long time for me to be comfortable enough to ask them out, or go out with them. And I get so much attention from the ladies too, so it sucks when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Friend/coworker, shoots a lot of videos of me and posts them on his insta story. Always with a flair of humor in it. Is this flirting?

so this guy (whom happens to be hot too) is always taking videos of me, (like almost every day) and out of maybe 3 videos he makes, he posts at least 1 of those with me in it on his insta story. He has a lot of followers...

Bleepbleep

Xper 2 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

I feel like I'm too "weird" for my boyfriend? What do I do?

Hi guys; I'm a really funny, energetic, bright person. I love to laugh, dance, tell insane jokes. Some of my humor is really weird and I will laugh for days but I just love to laugh/have fun. I just feel like I'm too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I asked her out. Now what?

I finally plucked up the courage and asked out the girl from work. I asked if She wanted to go for a drink this weekend and she went all shy and said "I'm actually going on a date this weekend and I'm going to a birthday...

Frankenollie

Xper 5 Age: 40

Dating

What would you do in a situation like this?

Had this guy that really liked me, but never had the nerve to tell me that he did. He end up telling my best friend that he liked me, but somewhere between that line. They end up having a sexual relationship, not sure how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How can I make this shy/introverted guy at my job notice me or show him im interested?

He's 26, im 23. We've talked a few times like friendly casual conversations. We work in the same workplace just different areas. I've initiated most of the conversations and actually started talking to him because i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Shy or too shy to say?

Few months back, some shop I used to pass, walking by one day just kinda clapped eyes on this girl behind the counter who seemed to be staring at me. Was caught a little off guard tbh, was in my own little world when I...

The_Uncivilised

Xper 2 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Is there some interest there?

The_Uncivilised

Xper 2 Age: 30

Dating

If I asked this guy out on the first date, should I be the one to ask him out on the second one too?

A week ago, I went out on a date with a friend I matched with. I asked him out, but he followed up and planned the date. He was the more talkative person, the body language was good and there was a lot of laughter. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Am I being overly sensitive?

Am I being overly sensitive? So today I felt cute and I had my hair down. I put on a t shirt and some jeans. I took a couple f pictures. And my friend was taking some too but we were in a mirror so I could be seen too....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why don’t girls ever approach guys if they really like them?

I’ve been approached before by women, and I went out with them all. But recently, no luck. It doesn’t help that I’m really shy too. I only ask out girls who I know, so I don’t have the courage to approach random...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

So does he really like me and wants to date me?

Hi guys so there is this friend of mine whom I have known my entire life. Right now I am 20 and we live in the same neighbourhood. So naturally we always went to the same school and had same class and bus. During our...

Littlestruck

Xper 2 Age: 23

Dating

What qualities of a woman make a guy think of her as an easy lay?

I recently had a guy ask me to his place on a 1st date which I declined. Another poster noted he may have seen me as an easy lay. This made me wonder what about me or certain women might scream easy. I wasn't dressed...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Entertainment & Arts

Dance, Dance, Dancing on a Date

I think dancing on a date would be romantic, energetic, sexy and fun. This could consist of scheduling a date at a dance class or attending a local ball, clubbing downtown, going to the arcade to hop on the dance machine,...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Flirting

Girls, how do I solve two women crushing on me?

Dear Girls ask Guys, There's a girl I know that is showing every sign of interest in me; teasing eachother, lovings eyes, catching her gazing at me from across the room, and sitting opposite me waiting for me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Is "treat others how you would like being treated" a worthless teaching?

I've been doing that for so long. My parents raised me to be a well mannered child. I was taught that being decent gets you kindness in return. I'm about to give up their teachings. As a kid, I got bullied a lot just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is a girl considered unattractive if guys don’t approach and ask her out ever?

But she gets likes on tinder and never uses filters or makeup but they don’t even ask her out face to face. Why is that? Is it that she’s too shy or quiet? Should she take it personal?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do men find really shy and introverted women attractive?

So my biggest challenge with dating is that I don’t really know how to put myself out there. I’m usually kept to myself when I go out places alone and maybe read a book or workout. I am really good at making female...

Katerina_RU19

Xper 1 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Tips on how I can become less shy and more open?

Being an introvert doesn't mean you're shy and being shy doesn't mean you're an introvert, but I happen to be both :(. I'm incredibly shy to a point that I get frustrated with myself. It's not even a case where I'm...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy stares at you a lot?

I’m new to this school and I sit across from this guy named Matt who would often stare at me. It’d be really intense too, and he wouldn’t look away even as I returned his stare. He would actually glare/squint (?) at me...

Anonymous

(18-24)