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When I was younger, it wasn't as hard to find a date as it is today. It seems like they raised the bar in order to be accepted now. Back when I was maybe 13 or 14, I wasn't really dating at that age but I don't remember people needing to meet The criteria's they need to meet in today's world. you can't have gone to jail or any of that stuff if you want to be excepted by a decent person. Women and men both expect you to have gone to college, But back in the day they only expected you to have a job. I guess the stipulations are still the same as far as children go, men and women don't like entering relationships when you have children with someone else already...
Imagine a simpler time: A well-dressed single gentleman pulls up to the front of a single lady’s home in the early evening, steps out of his car, and approaches her front door. The two of them were introduced to one another by a mutual friend at a social function some weeks prior.

It is their first date.

As she steps outside, he offers an umbrella to shield her from rain showers, walks with her to the passenger side of the car, and opens the door for her. She notices the interior of the car is spotless. The pair takes a scenic route to a special destination: a reserved table at an elegant restaurant. Conversation flows naturally for a couple hours, with each beginning to learn about the background and interests of the other. After dessert, the gentleman pays for the meal and then drives the lady home. Accompanying her to her door, he thanks her with a warm smile, and departs. This may be repeated on a regular basis, and could eventually lead to courtship and marriage, as the two get to know one another through hours of conversation, spread over months. How much has dating changed in recent years? Over the decades in the Western world, traditional dating was gradually overtaken by the high school “going steady/boyfriend-girlfriend” approach.

When guys go out to bars/clubs/lounges with their boys or alone, it's to look for women, find a relationship or get sex.

When girls go out to bars/clubs/lounges with their girls (I rarely if ever see women go to these settings alone), it's to impress other women with their outfits, look great and spend time with the girls.

Don't get me wrong, in some instances, a guy will get lucky and meet a girl. My friends used to get lucky like this... after talking to EVERY girl in the club and finding maybe 1 or 2 that were DTF. But... mostly... men will get rejected over and over and over again while trying to approach girls in a bar/club/lounge setting.

Keeping that in mind... I always hear women complaining about men approaching them.

Ladies... let's say they started making bars/clubs/lounges that only catered to WOMEN ONLY, much like the male strip clubs you go to (when women go see male strippers, it's still about having a good time with their friends... not the guy... lol...)... would you prefer going to female only bars/clubs/lounges as opposed to ones populated by men?

What are you thoughts on this?