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So let suppose a girl was a 10/10 and she had an ex-bf who she dated for 6 years from college to her present age 28. This guy is her first pick for a mate (alpha genetics, money, charismatic, smart). However, there comes a point in her life in her late 20's when she is seeing all her friends getting married, the wedding pics on FB and people she grew up with having babies and she wants that too. So she constantly pestering her man to put a ring on her and that just drives him up a wall and makes him not want to do it even more. What happens usually is either the man gets fed up at her constant nagging e and ultimatums and dumps her or something in her head goes off that this guy doesn't want a serious relationship and commitment from me and she drops him. Real Life example: "Ye, she's desperately trying to get married and have a kid before 30. And if he doesn't put a ring on it, she will leave and find a beta that will do it quickly (probably lower value than your brother)." Response: Funny thing is, this happened to another friend of mine. 10 years dating, he and his ex were approaching 30 as well. They broke it off, she found another dude within months and got engaged. Following year they had a kid." So they break up. What many women do is they start looking for guys who they think will commit within a year and this usually means lowering on looks and putting more emphasis on other things like job and status for provider qualities. This can either be a totally new guy she doesn't know or a guy she kept in the friendzone for all these years and who has done pretty good for himself. So she comes to you. She's a 7/10 now. Her youthful glow is gone, she has wrinkles and got a little fatter but she is still an attractive women with good genetics. She is the best looking girl you ever got a chance to date and now wants to date you because she thinks your the best man available to her that will commit within a year. Would you be ok with this?

I just notice sometimes when I date various women where my friends or other people would mock me, laugh or make jokes about the women I meet up with. If my girlfriend is ugly does that mean I am a failure in life or if i don't get laid a lot, especially with hot women does that mean I'm a loser? I sometimes feel insecure and paranoid on the women I walk around with that I am dating because people keep staring at me and the women I am with. Is this a big deal if I am wanting to keep a good image of my self because I feel people are judging me as a person or my value as a man.