Life is made of attraction and repulsion. This attractions and repulsion can found right from school, example we attracted to certain friends, example those with the same aspiration and ambition as us. We eat foods that make us healthy and repel foods that are junk and so on. There are certain qualities and interest that brings people together. And this truth has been sum up in different expressions such as "birds of a feather flock together", "one man's food is someone else's poison". In other words what is appealing to you may not appeal to others. People of the same class, reasoning, hang out together. When it comes to human relationships, attraction is in content. Most people believe attraction starts and ends with physical beauty and appearance. No, this is not true, we have seen ugly people get married, while the beautiful ones are not so lucky. By content I mean quality and character. People remember us for who we and not for what we look like. For example we often hear people say, "He is a loving and Caring Father" they say this because they have come in contact with the nice quality the man has within him. Physical appearance can be deceitful most times; most people who have been attracted to looks have ended up regretting their moves. For example they are records of people who look so innocent but they abuse their partners, and are involve in other illegal activities.
People are attracted to life, light, and the good things of life. That is the reason smiling plays a great role in attraction. A positive spirit is also important to attraction. Traits people look out for are courage, trust, love, hope, faithfulness, kindness and so on. Physical beauty or looks is just to cap off an attractive person. For those who feel they are ugly and are non-attractive, my advice for them is to pay attention to their qualities and spice it up with neatness. By neatness I mean cleanliness and looking good.
Finally, let us beware of people who come in the name of love, but have a different motive. These people come knocking on the door to the house of love, but with the intention of hurting and stealing from the occupant. To avoid hurt it is better to ask questions, test the person before you open the door of your heart.
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