I wrote this for people that want to improve some aspects of their personality instead of improving looks so you can still improve on relationships without having to improve your looks.
1. Be clear about your intentions. Guys and girls if you want to be sure that you will avoid the friendzone make your intentions clear that you like them or are interested (don’t make it too obvious or it ruins it) . How do you do this? Flirt with them send subtle signs you like them such as teasing, helping and getting to know them better, this helps show you like them so they don’t mistake your intentions as friendly, but see them as flirtatious.
2. Be yourself. This is one of the most important things in a healthy relationship, is that you both know that your partner is the real deal, so be yourself don’t be afraid as if you come across as fake or awkward it will hurt you more in the long run. People will naturally gravitate towards you if they like your personality and character so don’t fake it.
3. Open up. Tell them about yourself, this builds connection and gives you a little more depth. People hate it when all they know about someone is their favorite video game or food, so open up tell them about your life, family, friends or even your snow globe collection you have.
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I think these are 3 good points. "Be clear about your intentions." I find that most use the shotgun approach to new relationships. Not all of us do have a real reason for wanting it, and you are very right to describe it as you did.