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So I struggled with weight for quite some time.. People have been telling me I was too fat, so I lost weight. Then they were telling me I was too skinny, so I gained weight.. what now? I don't know whether I should try to change the way I look...

Me in 2012 - 130lbs

https://i.imgur.com/zMIFPGo.jpg

Me in 2013 - 97lbs

https://i.imgur.com/SJVxnit.jpg

Me in 2014 - 125lbs

https://i.imgur.com/7CV4Os5.jpg

I know the pics aren't ideal but they're the best I got at the moment.

Honestly, I am asking here cus I want opinions since I have few friends anyway. Weve been together 3 months, known each other for 5 years and I love him. As he supposedly loves me. I love him for many things, with specifically his personality. He's funny and caring. I'm pregnant with his child. And since I've been pregnant. Thjngs have gone downhill. He wants me to diet because I don't believe he's very happy with my weight. Although I'm gonna get real fat being pregnant and It's unhealthy to diet while pregnant. He knows I have self esteem issues and this isn't helpful. We've talked about cheating and I said I never could as did he but he's worried I would cheat on him. He also said if we'd ever break up, he'd go fuck some girls but It wouldn't be the same cus there'd be no emotion. I don't doubt this. I don't hang out with his friends cus they are bad influences and he doesn't like that. He still talks to his ex. But just as a friend yet it worries me. I am sick of all this extra stress that he's putting on me. But I love him still. I'm just so terribly conflicted and hurt. We are 19 years old. We are putting the baby up for adoption by the way, which he isn't too fond of. Honestly I'd rather die than lose him.. He's my best friend.. But this is so painful and I don't addres this things with him cus I'm worried I'll seem paranoid and nit picky, you know?

How common would it be for a guy in their mid to late twenties to be willing to get into a relationship with a girl who is overweight, but in the process of losing? Of course being overweight is not something a girl like me would be proud of or want to embrace, but weight gain happens, and I am dedicated to dieting and exercising and have lost 15 pounds in two months, but I plan to step it up in a healthy way. I feel like guys just judge my appearance now and don't want to take a chance on me even if my personality and beliefs align with theirs. It sucks because my body is not me. I exist inside a shell, just as everyone does, and I hate being judged by my weight when I know I am doing everything in my power to get back to my figure in a healthy way. My natural state is 5'6", 140lbs. For me that means I have an hourglass figure and a flat stomach. I'm proud of my booty and boobs and the curves I have. I could never be a size 0 just because of my bone structure alone. Anyway, why can't women who are in the process of losing weight for themselves and getting fit get an attractive guy to be interested in them?