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I have seen this countless times throughout the years. One girl I know was raped by a guy but she fell for him later, one I know dating a guy who's already into two relationships publically, one girl gets beaten by his boyfriend but yet she's with him, someday ago I was seeing one couple at a restaurant. The girl wanted one dish but the guy insisted that she has to eat what he picked for him. Married women with careers end up doing all the housework too. Most women love complaining about relationships than being happy with them as they love drama and a dynamic relationship. There's a fear that everything will be good with a good guy and it will be the same for years and they will get bored (as stated by a girl). Very very few choose good guys in a relationship, even if they do it's for the last.
Somehow many older women still follow the same.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I am horrible when it comes to women. I am also short in height at 5'6" and have Aspergers.

I have had no luck on dating apps. I have been rejected by two 18 year old girls on the first date. One of them (now 19) is marrying someone else in a few months.

All my peers are getting married.

It seems like both my only sibling (sister) and I have not had luck in the relationship world. Do you think it is a family curse? Do you think it is destiny to remain single for life?

I think it’s ridiculous how single moms think they’re high value and have high standards. Especially those who were never married and have children with more than one guy. Anytime a guy marries a single mom, it’s because he’s desperate, lonely, and had no other options. That’s the honest brutal truth.

No man wants another man’s lifetime responsibility. You’re really not winning dating someone’s mom, regardless of how hot she is. Single moms are just looking for a dad. Single women are just looking for love!

Some of my friends think it’s black men because of stereotypes: big penis, usually tall, athletic, good in bed.

Others think it’s white men, because black men are typically objectified and get married less often than white men do. White men stereotypically come from a better class, are “safer”, and have a higher net worth on average. White women and other races tend to go back to their own kind after dating black men in high school or college.

I think it’s white men, based on my experience. I have 2 friends that are software engineers; one white and one black. They’re both pretty average looking guys, equally as athletic. The black guy makes slightly more money because he got a new job, but he has a harder time dating. Their Bumble & Hinge profiles are similar, but the white guy gets twice as many matches and goes on at least one date every 2 weeks. The black guy is lucky if he has one date a month.

So ladies, what’s your type? If you don’t have a type, then what race do you think is the most sought after? Feel free to share why.

My friend group is big on us dating and marrying women that are our type. I am the only one in the group who doesn't really have a type. I'll date any race and skin color. It doesn't matter to me. My friends think I'm struggling to get into a long term relationship because I am "not focused" and "don't know my type". They'll sometimes corner me and hound me asking, "What's your type? What's your type?"

The longest relationship I've been in was for 2 years, but that was long-distance with a white girl I met online. My other 2 relationships have been short, like 2-3 months, and they were with lightskin black girls. So by their logic, I have 2 types, white and lightskin black. Whenever I go for a white girl, they think I'm copying another guy in the friend group because he likes white girls, but he wound up marrying a darkskin black woman. Then if I go for a lightskin black girl, they think she's ugly. If I go for a darkskin black girl, they say that I need to elevate my "level of blackness" to get with her. If I go for an Asian girl, they'll say Asian girls smell bad and throw out a racist Asian meme in our group text.

All of the other guys in the group are either in long-term relationships or married. 3 of them are married to darkskin black women, 1 of them is dating a darkskin black woman, and the other 1 is dating a lightskin black woman. I think these guys are just insecure. Clearly 1 didn't marry his type, I can't tell if he's happy or not. I think they just hate me for whatever reason.

Even the white girl I dated online said that her usual type is brown hair, white, tall, and conservative. I just saw on Facebook that she married a guy who matched her type 3 months ago. By looking through her profile, she seems happy and posts him or stories about him all the time.

Should I lock-in on my type which seems to be white and lightskin black? Or should I still date all races and ignore these guys? What has your experience been if you're married? Should type matter?