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Search Results: give him the confidence to ask me out
Shy Guys Are NOT Victims (Authored by a Shy Guy)!
The title says it all. Before I ramble on, here are some things about myself. I'm incredibly shy because I don't consider myself good looking, tall, and aggressive. Confidence is key and somewhere along the way I failed...
bellybuttonlint
Yoda Age: 42 Feeling Like No One is There For You...A Personal Narrative
Do any of you feel like you can't rely on anyone but yourself? My whole life has felt like that but tonight it's really hitting me. It all started a few weeks ago when I asked this girl I liked to formal. It was quite a...
jackaquack
Xper 5 Age: 26 Why would a guy (who knows that I like him), vent to me about his relationship?
So I told this guy that I had a crush on him a few months ago and he gave me a sorta weird answer. He said that he wasn't really sure how to respond to what I said, but he had a lot of respect for me for telling him. When...
Anonymous
(25-29) Really Can't Get Over Crush?
It's been 1.5 years now and I just can't seem to get over my crush. She was a beautiful girl, exactly my type. Smart, she had a degree, Talented, she could play any instrument. Hard worker, worked full time, got...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would a guy think that I can't do better than him?
I had an ex who thought i was desperate for liking him, but i just liked him for him. I have better guys flirt with and who approach me but i dont feel anything. My ex uses me liking him as a confidence boost, because im...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is god trying to tell me something here?
well so... i had this guy friend and him and i were so close. We were sophomores. i guess he fell for me... i dont know. he sure would stare at me whole lot. all my friends would tell me this and it just seemed like he...
Anonymous
(25-29) A guy really likes me but I don't feel the same way for him but don't want to knock his confidence?
So today I met this guy I've been texting for a while. Initially I didn't really feel attracted to him but I thought that was a harsh judgement considering I'd never met him so I agreed to meet him. Today I met him and I...
alex_clarke
Xper 5 Age: 25 My friend didn’t want to talk out our argument?
So my friend got irritated with me because I kept asking her if she had a problem with me because she was being rude. She blew up on me and said yes because I keep asking her. So I left her alone and then I came back...
xxmoonlightxx
Xper 5 Age: 32 What does a guy mean when he says it didn’t feel right?
I went on a date with a guy I met online on while back. We had spoke on the phone and decided to meet for a casual drink. First impressions of him were good, however he was extremely fridety. I thought things were going...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I just need your opinion on the situation so I'll understand him more?
So there's a guy I knew for about 2 years. We saw each other like 2 or 3 times a year, messaged even less, but we always got along. Then out of the blue he asked me out on a date. It seemed very suspicious and I took it...
NessyTheMonster
Xper 6 Age: 28 The Ultimate Guide to Getting Girls!
So recently I've been seeing a couple of my takes on how to get women and what women like blah blah blah. Some of the stuff I've heard is just plain cringey. There was even a post a girl made trying to give us bros...
Prettyboyfresh
Xper 5 Age: 27 Why The "Bad Boy" Gets More Women Than The "Nice Guy"
So a few days ago I was procrastinating my studies in order to look at the /r/niceguys page on Reddit. I was scrolling through the all time feed and laughing my ass off at all the self proclaimed "nice guys." About 5...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I find my confidence when I struggle with ostracism and lack of relationship experience?
So I've been trying to develop my inner confidence and find out exactly where it comes from and how to express it (see my other question). My problem is that I noticed that I get kinda standoffish around people when I'm...
awesometjgreen
Yoda Age: 27 WHy hasn't he asked me out on a third date?
I met a guy from Tinder. He was not like the other guys, I finally felt that he is just like me, he was intelligent, funny, really cute-looking, and also a bit shy in the same time.. so perfect. We had 2 really enjoyable...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I gain confidence?
Hey all, i'm pretty new to this app, just downloaded it. Main part i downloaded was because the app seems to be aiming to help eachother and give opinions about certain topic.. anyways i wanted to ask how you all gain...
melix9
Xper 4 Age: 26 I want to start dating again, but trying to meet girls is so frustrating and generally unsuccessful. What the hell should I do?
So I've been single for a bit and trying to date again, but thus far I've had virtually no success. Girls I try to go out with just blow me off over and over until I give up on asking (which, fucking rude, if you're a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Blast to the past. How to ask out a girl you knew as far back as kindergarden?
So I know this girl she has always kinda been in a different league then me. Granted it was probably a self imposed gap but still. At this point in my life I have far more confidence then I did for the 13 years I knew...
syntheticnerd
Xper 4 Age: 32 I actually really like my job as a Starbucks barista... what are similar higher paying or more satisfactory jobs for my future?
I'm 23 and actually going for my masters in computer science but I don't think it's for me (however much my dad is pushing me through it). Back in June I got a job in a Starbucks inside a grocery store, so it's not a...
TikiTook
Explorer Age: 31 Should My Boyfriend Have Female Friends?
I see this as such a common question/topic and it's truly such a hard thing to go through. This can be vice versa for relationships, doesn't just aim at boyfriend! :) The real thing is, don't stop your boyfriend from...
soccerchick4eva
Editor Age: 27 I asked a girl out and she said "ill think about it"?
So I've been talking to my coworker every now and then when it's not busy at work. One day she decided to ask me about my life what I wanted to do where I went to high school, felt like I was being interviewed lmao. I...
LostLuigi
Xper 4 Age: 29 